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Ok, I can't sleep, my head is pounding. Anyway, so like I said (well you said first), I think that going from church to church to meet people is a terrible idea. I don't mean to make generalizations about God's will but I don't think God ever wants us to go from church to church (unless you're a guest preacher), He wants us to find a church and then make a commitment to it, and the number of possible guys to date at a church should not be the main draw in choosing your home church. So, since you are pretty clear about the right reasons to go to church it's ironic that people are telling you to go to church for the wrong reasons because meeting guys at church seems like a better idea than meeting guys on-line.
So what I'm saying to you, Minnesotablu, is that you need to find a copy of How to Get a Date Worth Keeping, by Dr. Henry Cloud. He's a very respected Christian psychologist, and that book really changed my life. I recomend that book for almost every Christian single. It's not for teenagers, and it's not for people who are being called to not date right now for whatever reason, but it's for everyone else. It not only got me dating, but it really changed my view on just the whole perspective I had before on how I go about meeting the right person. See, I've read some great advice on how to recognize the right one, and what to do when you have the right person, how to make your relationship grow and whether or not your ready for marriage and whatnot, and I've read some great advice on how to prepare yourself while you're single, but for the longest time I had no idea how to get the right guy in front of me. That's because a lot of books skip that step because they believe God just "brings" the right person to you and if He hasn't He must want you to be single. Well, it's hard to justify that with the Bible.
Anyway, I'm going to go back to bed. Good night.
So what I'm saying to you, Minnesotablu, is that you need to find a copy of How to Get a Date Worth Keeping, by Dr. Henry Cloud. He's a very respected Christian psychologist, and that book really changed my life. I recomend that book for almost every Christian single. It's not for teenagers, and it's not for people who are being called to not date right now for whatever reason, but it's for everyone else. It not only got me dating, but it really changed my view on just the whole perspective I had before on how I go about meeting the right person. See, I've read some great advice on how to recognize the right one, and what to do when you have the right person, how to make your relationship grow and whether or not your ready for marriage and whatnot, and I've read some great advice on how to prepare yourself while you're single, but for the longest time I had no idea how to get the right guy in front of me. That's because a lot of books skip that step because they believe God just "brings" the right person to you and if He hasn't He must want you to be single. Well, it's hard to justify that with the Bible.
Anyway, I'm going to go back to bed. Good night.