In need of Singleness advice

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DarlinNadia

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maxwel said:
I'm pretty dense, and when a girl wants to get my attention, it's actually best if she says she "like like likes" me. Yeah, three times. And then I'll still be a bit uncertain, so I'll say something like, "So... do you like me more than chocolate, or a pair of new shoes?"

But that's really unrealistic of me. I shouldn't expect any girl to like me more than chocolate or shoes.
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I had to laugh.. When my ex husband told me he liked me it went just like this:

Him: Hey Tif,
Me: yeah?
Him: I like you
Me: Awww I like you too
Him: I mean I really like you
Me: I really like you too
Him: I mean I love you
Me. You are so sweet, I love you too
Him: Tif, no. I mean I like like you.. like Love like you like you.













Him: Tif? Say something please .. you are scaring me
Him: Tif?
Me: I'm still here and I'm alive and I'm okay, I'm just in shock. Wait.




Him: Tif?
Me: Ok... so when you say like... you mean really like like?
Him: Yes like I want to do more than just hug you
Me: Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh.


So ... I'm a little thicker when it comes right down to it and it's real. Good Luck to anyone remotely interested in me. lol
 
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Nicee

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#42
#42
Ugly said:
Why not just say something? You can spend your life in this false cultural concept that as a woman you can't speak up, and sit around waiting for someone else to. Or you can stop wasting your time and speak up to him.
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WELL SAID. WELL SAID.
 
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juzmargie

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#43
#43
Hi Victoria,

Well, I would say that the first thing you need to pray is that God's peace and love is with you, so you are not feeling anxious about feeling to do (to say) or not to do something. That doesn't mean that you can sit down & fold your hands, but you can show that you like him in feminine way. Well, I would think gazing to his eyes more than 5 seconds and a smile would speak loud about your interest in him. :D

If you believe that man should lead, then you can pray that God will help him to take the lead & the courage to pop the question. But if after waiting & it seems that he is still that 'dense', you can open up the conversation in a non-pushy way & still let him take the lead. E.g. you tell him that you feel comfortable talking to him & you shared that you don't do this with any other guy. You can ask the question if he feels the same. From there continue, ask another smart question without being too pushy.

Ask God for wisdom on how to ask those questions. Hehehe...:)
 
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