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Tanner, I dont think what this person said is polite, fair, nor representative of this website as a whole. I have been on this website for years now, and even though sometimes I get disappointed with it, when it comes down to it, this is the cleanest forum and by FAR the cleanest chatroom I have ever seen in the cesspool which is the internet. I keep coming back to CC when I'm depressed, because compared to a lot of people, the people here are okay.
You have a right to be offended, but dont make any rash decisions and leave because of something like this. There is no perfect website or perfect group of people.
You have a right to be offended, but dont make any rash decisions and leave because of something like this. There is no perfect website or perfect group of people.
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I believe this site is also about honesty and humour. But if you insist, I can get serious....
What offended you most? That I don't appreciate your countless hours taking care of your appearance enough to find you that goodlooking? I may be wrong, of course, but from what I have read you take great pride in your appearance and you neglect other parts of your life maintaining it the way you want it. In my humble opinion, this is called vanity.
This sounds rather superficial to me "its earned with countless hours in the gym countless hour in food preparation and countess hours neglecting other areas of my life" and it is the reason why you attract equally superficial women. Who we are attract relevant people however hard this is for us to accept.
Bottom line... if you want Juliet, you must be Romeo.
I am not judging you, I am giving you some food for thought. Just saying some sympathy words and some "awws" is not going to help you at all.
What offended you most? That I don't appreciate your countless hours taking care of your appearance enough to find you that goodlooking? I may be wrong, of course, but from what I have read you take great pride in your appearance and you neglect other parts of your life maintaining it the way you want it. In my humble opinion, this is called vanity.
This sounds rather superficial to me "its earned with countless hours in the gym countless hour in food preparation and countess hours neglecting other areas of my life" and it is the reason why you attract equally superficial women. Who we are attract relevant people however hard this is for us to accept.
Bottom line... if you want Juliet, you must be Romeo.
I am not judging you, I am giving you some food for thought. Just saying some sympathy words and some "awws" is not going to help you at all.
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Did you miss the part where he said that he didn't used to look like he did at all? I.E. he's one of many who have taken either an overweight or skinny as a rail body and turned it into something that they can be happy with - without resorting to pills or surgery or any other easy way out.
That takes a lot of time. And while he may have swung over too far to the other end of the spectrum, his comment is that he's not looking for lust, he's looking for love - Godly love.
We all made a few jokes, we all steered the OP in a slightly different direction, but no one here is trying to pass judgment on him any more. Don't take it too far...
Also, you must not be very familiar with body dimorphism. I'm not saying the OP has it, but the same thing that drives young women to anorexia sometimes drives men to over exercise. How about you go easy on someone when they aren't happy with how others judge their appearance - you have no idea what kind of pain you might be causing them in their lives.