ladies, I need a little advice!!

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Mammachickadee

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jrccomputer said:
Ladies, I'm back again and I need some more advice. So here goes:

Is it a big turn off if a guy is not going to college??? If he has a fantastic paying job (as a Computer programmer) and just does not need college.

Is it a turn off if he wants to maybe go to college in the future??

Thanks!! JRC
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Heavens no. If you don't need college, especially when you're a techy, you don't need college. Most turn offs are socioemotional or personal issues like refusing to admit when you are wrong or acting like everyone should love you.
 
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Mammachickadee said:
Heavens no. If you don't need college, especially when you're a techy, you don't need college. Most turn offs are socioemotional or personal issues like refusing to admit when you are wrong or acting like everyone should love you.
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↑awesome post↑ thank you!!
 
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Mammachickadee

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jrccomputer said:
Your right. I just feel like when woman see me, they see me not going to college as a huge negative.
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About the time a woman is married to a man with a fine arts degree who can't find a job because fine arts is the first to get cut from curriculum she will figure out that a man with a reliable source of income is her bird in hand.
 
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Now if colleges would offer a degree in "Understanding Women", there would be a lot more men going to college and also switching degrees, but I guess it's hard to teach the impossible :eek:
 
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kenthomas27

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Gary said:
Now if colleges would offer a degree in "Understanding Women", there would be a lot more men going to college and also switching degrees, but I guess it's hard to teach the impossible :eek:
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just to answer this age old question:


If a man is in the forest and he says something and there's no woman out there to hear him

is he still wrong?
 
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Mammachickadee

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Gary said:
Now if colleges would offer a degree in "Understanding Women", there would be a lot more men going to college and also switching degrees, but I guess it's hard to teach the impossible :eek:
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lol women are just as constant as men are. :p Just when I, as a woman, thinks I can rely on my husband to stick with a decision he turns around and changes it because he feels it would be less advantageous to stick with it. For example... his decision to divorce me. After 11 months and 10k in lawyer fees on MY part (he never got a lawyer and my lawyer was doing everything in an attempt to get the thing over with quickly) he tells me at the last mediation meeting that he wants to work on the marriage. It took that much time and money for him to decide that he was better off married as he was before than single. Did I mention that was the second time we were in divorce court? lol Note: definition of insanity. Expecting a guy to stick with a decision to change when he is wont to stay in a particular habit/addiction/lifestyle. And that rule goes for women too. There really aren't so many differences as one might think, for all people are bent on one single desire at the core of their humanity: the desire to please self.
 
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Mammachickadee said:
lol women are just as constant as men are. :p Just when I, as a woman, thinks I can rely on my husband to stick with a decision he turns around and changes it because he feels it would be less advantageous to stick with it. For example... his decision to divorce me. After 11 months and 10k in lawyer fees on MY part (he never got a lawyer and my lawyer was doing everything in an attempt to get the thing over with quickly) he tells me at the last mediation meeting that he wants to work on the marriage. It took that much time and money for him to decide that he was better off married as he was before than single. Did I mention that was the second time we were in divorce court? lol Note: definition of insanity. Expecting a guy to stick with a decision to change when he is wont to stay in a particular habit/addiction/lifestyle. And that rule goes for women too. There really aren't so many differences as one might think, for all people are bent on one single desire at the core of their humanity: the desire to please self.
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★↑that is really tough, as Joyce meyers says someone always has it worst then u, you have it worst than me!! I will pray for you!!↑★
 
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If you are able to support yourself and others without a formal education and come off as somewhat intelligent and refined, very few people will care if or where you went to school.

That includes the ladies.
 
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Ritter said:
If you are able to support yourself and others without a formal education and come off as somewhat intelligent and refined, very few people will care if or where you went to school.

That includes the ladies.
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♣↑This is how I feel↑♣
 
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Jullianna

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kenthomas27 said:
just to answer this age old question:


If a man is in the forest and he says something and there's no woman out there to hear him

is he still wrong?
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We still know what he said and yes he is.
 
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Relena7

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The short answer is no. College education doesn't really make a difference in opinion to me at all. In this day and age, many people who have a degree in something don't even end up with a job that involves that degree in the first place.
Anyway I'd be a huge hypocrite if I said otherwise, because I haven't gone to college myself.


kenthomas27 said:
just to answer this age old question:


If a man is in the forest and he says something and there's no woman out there to hear him

is he still wrong?
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Uh... I first heard this joke when I was 13, and I still don't get it.
Can someone explain it to me? XD
 
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KJV15John11

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Relena7 said:
Uh... I first heard this joke when I was 13, and I still don't get it.
Can someone explain it to me? XD
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Its a play off of the question, "if a tree falls in the forest and there is no one to hear it, does it still make a noise." It's a philosophical query.
 
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nw2u

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Relena7 said:
Uh... I first heard this joke when I was 13, and I still don't get it.
Can someone explain it to me? XD
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It's a tongue in cheek question; a sort of smarty pants question.

This is a tongue in cheek response and my explanation of the question.

Some men think they are in charge in a relationship. Women know they only allow them to be in charge.
 
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Relena7

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KJV15John11 said:
Its a play off of the question, "if a tree falls in the forest and there is no one to hear it, does it still make a noise." It's a philosophical query.
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Yeah I got that. But wrong about what??? Wrong to call out for her? Wrong because she isn't there to tell him she disagrees? Or is it a joke on the "women are always right" thing?

AAHHH!!


lol
 
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Jullianna

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nw2u said:
It's a tongue in cheek question; a sort of smarty pants question.

This is a tongue in cheek response and my explanation of the question.

Some men think they are in charge in a relationship. Women know they only allow them to be in charge.
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My mom gave me two very valuable pieces of advice :) -

1. A man will pay far more attention to a whisper than a shriek; and
2. Always let him think it was HIS idea, dear
 
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kenthomas27

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Relena7 said:
Yeah I got that. But wrong about what??? Wrong to call out for her? Wrong because she isn't there to tell him she disagrees? Or is it a joke on the "women are always right" thing?

AAHHH!!


lol
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That was rich! You know, you and I should spend time together. We won't have any fun but you'll laugh for hours after I'm gone!
 
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kenthomas27

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Jullianna said:
My mom gave me two very valuable pieces of advice :) -

1. A man will pay far more attention to a whisper than a shriek; and
2. Always let him think it was HIS idea, dear
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Yikes. That wasn't even hittin' the outside corner; that was right down the pike. wow.



SHIELDS UP MEN!
 
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Richie_2uk

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eugenius said:
I have a College degree, high paying job, but women don't care because i'm 40 pounds overweight and a nerd (which is ultimately all that matters to them) so whatever. Financial success and being a mature adult doesn't matter.
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eugenius. The op, has requested only LADIES for advice.
 
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