You forgot one, "Dame"[video]https://youtu.be/Ljm9CDRAhMQ[/video]
I think it matters less what you are called and more about who is doing the calling. I don't mind being called "baby", "honey", "sweetie", "sugar", "darlin'", "girl", "woman", "lady", etc. I don't like female, it is too scientific and clinical to me. Impersonal, I guess.