love after divorce?

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Mrniceguy

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Maybe your husband was expecting to much to begin with as he should of told you what he expected of you and I'm now single like you and I'm divorced twice. As for that church, it may be a cult and ask your husband if maybe you two should try another church and hopefully still save the marriage and/or you'll try to do what he wants you to do but that miracles don't happen overnight. I would suggest going to an Evangelical Free church, a Baptist church, Assembly of God church and/or a Bible church where I'm currently going and if you want to discuss it further then email me atxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. Ken
 
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I know this sounds Christianese. I'm not a divorcee parse, but I did weather a heartbreak comparable to one.

Remain prayerful. Seek God's sovereign grace. He will help you see that you have brothers in Christ worthy of your feminine grace. You may not want to give your heart to one for some time and that is both natural and understandable.

While I laugh about the eccentricities of women and know I'm unsuitable to be paired with most of them, I've grown to adore some of my sisters in Christ in a very special way. That appreciation led to openness and that openness led me to a very wonderful woman.

I realize these things don't work the same for most people, but I suppose the first step with anything to do with relationships broadly speaking is to see people as God sees them. You will be wise to deal with their sinful qualities, but something truly special happens when love them as He loves them...and maybe more than that later on.

Also, a vital first step is going to a Church that is Biblically sound. Since the gent above me made his recommendations, I will make mine to the chagrin of some on this forum- seek out conservative Baptist or Presbyterian congregations. ;)
 
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Hi All,
I don't want to discourage anyone, but the OP is over a year old, and by the number of posts, I suspect our sister Resilience has not been around much. Shall we leave this thread to a quiet retirement? :)
 
zeroturbulence

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I knew someone would point it out sooner or later... :rolleyes: (that's why I didn't bother)
 
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You've got to be kidding me, I just assumed this was a new post
 
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Desdichado

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ArmoredBeliever said:
You've got to be kidding me, I just assumed this was a new post
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Same! Hahahaha.

It did get me to think critically about my relationship life though. There's an upside to everything...I tell myself.
 
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Dino246 said:
Hi All,
I don't want to discourage anyone, but the OP is over a year old, and by the number of posts, I suspect our sister Resilience has not been around much. Shall we leave this thread to a quiet retirement? :)
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i been saying it for long time, thread auto lock to keep zombie threads dead.
 
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Mrniceguy said:
Maybe your husband was expecting to much to begin with as he should of told you what he expected of you and I'm now single like you and I'm divorced twice. As for that church, it may be a cult and ask your husband if maybe you two should try another church and hopefully still save the marriage and/or you'll try to do what he wants you to do but that miracles don't happen overnight. I would suggest going to an Evangelical Free church, a Baptist church, Assembly of God church and/or a Bible church where I'm currently going and if you want to discuss it further then email me at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. Ken
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NEVER should anyone exchange emails with someone they do not know. In fact, I always Google people's emails to see what activity is linked with their email address.

Also, it's against the rules of most fourms to give out personal contact info because it is a dangerous thing to do.
 
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NEVER should anyone exchange emails with someone they do not know. In fact, I always Google people's emails to see what activity is linked with their email address.

Also, it's against the rules of most fourms to give out personal contact info because it is a dangerous thing to do.
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This is why I have more than one email address.. :rolleyes:
 
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AuntieAnt said:
NEVER should anyone exchange emails with someone they do not know. In fact, I always Google people's emails to see what activity is linked with their email address.

Also, it's against the rules of most fourms to give out personal contact info because it is a dangerous thing to do.
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especially when he's called Mrniceguy
Oh that brings back memories to the golden days on christian dating sites when everybody loved me. All these nice men and when I made a profile as a 96 year old Aboriginal man I could get a cute 18 year old good looking girl.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0mYBSayCsH0
 
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Mrniceguy said:
Maybe your husband was expecting to much to begin with as he should of told you what he expected of you and I'm now single like you and I'm divorced twice. As for that church, it may be a cult and ask your husband if maybe you two should try another church and hopefully still save the marriage and/or you'll try to do what he wants you to do but that miracles don't happen overnight. I would suggest going to an Evangelical Free church, a Baptist church, Assembly of God church and/or a Bible church where I'm currently going and if you want to discuss it further then email me atxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. Ken
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Why are you chasing a female who is old enough to be your daughter?
 
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Maybe your husband was expecting to much to begin with as he should of told you what he expected of you and I'm now single like you and I'm divorced twice. As for that church, it may be a cult and ask your husband if maybe you two should try another church and hopefully still save the marriage and/or you'll try to do what he wants you to do but that miracles don't happen overnight. I would suggest going to an Evangelical Free church, a Baptist church, Assembly of God church and/or a Bible church where I'm currently going and if you want to discuss it further then email me at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. Ken
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Yeah, posting personal information such as email, phone #'s, etc... are against the rules and will be removed if mods see it.
Also it looks pretty shady when new people join the site and try to get people off the site to talk.
The site is not closed outsiders, so anyone can see your email. But, it seems you don't hesitate to post it other places either.

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Yeah, posting personal information such as email, phone #'s, etc... are against the rules and will be removed if mods see it.
Also it looks pretty shady when new people join the site and try to get people off the site to talk.
The site is not closed outsiders, so anyone can see your email. But, it seems you don't hesitate to post it other places either.

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Oh my goodness. That's even worse than a love scammer.
 
Born_Again

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Ugly said:
Yeah, posting personal information such as email, phone #'s, etc... are against the rules and will be removed if mods see it.
Also it looks pretty shady when new people join the site and try to get people off the site to talk.
The site is not closed outsiders, so anyone can see your email. But, it seems you don't hesitate to post it other places either.

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Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuude........... o_O
 
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kaylagrl

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Dino246 said:
Hi All,
I don't want to discourage anyone, but the OP is over a year old, and by the number of posts, I suspect our sister Resilience has not been around much. Shall we leave this thread to a quiet retirement? :)
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Arg!!! Fell for it again!!!! They need to fold old topics IMO
 
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