Masturbation...Is it really that wrong?

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machew

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So it is a sin because it could escalate into actual adultery? That seems a bit of a stretch.
It isn't a sin but will inevitably lead you to sin.

And women are already sexualiized and objectified, otherwise we would all like like androgynous ken dolls.
You say this with the assumption that it is okay to look at women as objects rather than people. I don't agree that this is a good way of viewing women, especially if you want a healthy relationship with the opposite sex.

The benefits of masturbation are physiological and emotional. The dangers of not having regular sexual release are erectile disorders, prostate problems, sterility, impotence and possible even cancer.
I doubt you could find these sorts of facts from an unbiased source.
 
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Servantofiam

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Firstly- I don't believe the Bible ever mentions that we cannot enjoy anything physical ever. All verses used saying that "We should be spiritual and not physical" are taken out of context- They are just there to point out how the spiritual matters more than the physical, and the physical should not become more important.

Secondly- I love how you say we "dance around the truth" and "admit lack of knowledge," when you have provided no real biblical support yourself (though I admit I'm not looking up any verses to quote right now either XD)

Thirdly- This is your logic: "It's physical pleasure, and not spiritual, so it must be wrong." So is eating, so is getting a massage, so it having sex WITH YOUR SPOUSE. Being physical in nature does not make it evil at all.
I think you should look up 2 timothy 3 which I posted earlier to show my point biblicaly about pleasure. I'm sorry I should have stated selfish pleasure not all pleasure. I've made some earlier posts and didn't think I needed to restate all that information again I understand what you're saying about all pleasure not being sin, you are right but, The bible clearly says it's good to eat and be married but I don't find it's approval of masturbation in it's text anywhere. Read the bible text I quoted and let me know what it says to you.
Plus I can't help but point out the beginning of your MSG states "I don't believe the bible ever mentions" you totally validate my point, by acknowledging you don't know and then proceed to also state I havnt used scripture while admitting your own hypocrisy in the same manner. I hope you take this in the spirit it is intended, which is honest calm debate
 
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Vidy

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I think you should look up 2 timothy 3 which I posted earlier to show my point biblicaly about pleasure. I'm sorry I should have stated selfish pleasure not all pleasure. I've made some earlier posts and didn't think I needed to restate all that information again I understand what you're saying about all pleasure not being sin, you are right but, The bible clearly says it's good to eat and be married but I don't find it's approval of masturbation in it's text anywhere. Read the bible text I quoted and let me know what it says to you.
Plus I can't help but point out the beginning of your MSG states "I don't believe the bible ever mentions" you totally validate my point, by acknowledging you don't know and then proceed to also state I havnt used scripture while admitting your own hypocrisy in the same manner. I hope you take this in the spirit it is intended, which is honest calm debate
Believe me, I don't get offended easily in debate =) I debate all the time, and I've had experience with those who quickly turn calm debate into heated debate. It's usually reasons that have nothing to do with debate, and allowing outside circumstances and experiences to influence your decisions in debate is horrible and should never be done =P

But anyway, back to the actual argument- Yes, I realize my hypocrisy. In fact, I even pointed out my own hypocrisy in the matter! =P But in this particular circumstance, I'm putting the pressure on you to tell me where the Bible says it's wrong. As far as what I stated the Bible never said, wasn't I correct? The Bible never says to deny yourself pleasure just because it's pleasurable.

As for the verses you pointed out to me-

1But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— 5having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them. 6They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over weak-willed women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth. 8Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these men oppose the truth—men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. 9But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone.






This is what I gathered-

#1- In the last days, people will be terrible (look also to the reference in Luke 17:26 about the days of Noah)
#2- These people are selfish, loud, proud, rebels, all-around jerks, sinful, don't love, don't forgive, lie, are impulsive, violent, and despise doing the right thing. They are quick to betray you, don't think things through, think highly of themselves, and loves pleasures more than God. They also "have a form of godliness," meaning I guess they call themselves Christians and/or go to church.

#3- It says to just avoid these people.
#4- These people, with evil intentions, find the weak-minded and sway them into even deeper evil
#5- These people are always in the pursuit of knowledge, but actively oppose truth (may I say- atheists?)
#6- These people will not get far- their faults will be apparent to many


I think the main thing you're trying to hit at, seeing as it's the only mention of pleasure, is "lovers of pleasures rather than lovers of God." The context indicates that these people are just self-indulgent, and will do evil regardless of what God thinks. They just exist to make themselves feel good, and don't care at all about God.


I don't see how masturbation fits this- YES, it feels good. It is a pleasure. However, there are few ways that masturbation can cause you to completely disregard God- unless, of course, God has stated that he disapproves. In that case, masturbation would be a direct rebellion against God. However, this isn't the case. God not ONCE mentions masturbation. I did some research, and there are two places in the Bible where the original translation says something like "standing on his feet," (or some phrase similar, I might have it wrong), which could either mean peeing or masturbating. In either case, it was not deemed wrong or sinful, and was referred to as a normal event happening.


Like I've said before, I don't have to find where God supports masturbation- I just have to find where he says, either explicitly or implicitly, where he is displeased by it. And as far as I've read and researched, he doesn't ~_o
 
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Servantofiam

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Very good response, i think I can clear this up. While I understand masturbation is subjective to the individual person, it has been my experience that it is bound by lust. By that I mean it goes hand in hand, forgive the pun ;) I am also aware that that is not always the case. So let's look only at the objective aspect of the act. The spilling of semen is written about in the OT Leviticus 15:16 it says that the spilling of semen causes uncleaness And the body needs to be cleansed with water and remains unclean until evening. So releasing semen causes the body to be unclean. As Christian our bodies are the temple of God Himself. So this statement can be said; masturbation causes the temple of God to be unclean. I cannot say that faith with allow anyone to do such a thing and anything outside of faith is sin.

Now let me also acknowledge this; Rom 14:14 I know and am convinced by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing unclean of itself; but to him who considers anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean. Masturbation is unclean to me, my conscience bearing witness with the Spirit condemns the act for me. But if anyone honestly sees masturbation as clean and not a sin then so be it for him or her.

Because it is not explicit dealt with, masturbation will always be a personal decision it seems. But if you go into the heart of Gods word and read not just the words but the message, I believe there is plenty of evidence to make a sound affirmation that masturbation is sin. Thanks for the debate, great study tool. Really gets the wheels turning. You responses have helped form a new veiwpoint in this matter thank you and God bless.
 
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Vidy

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Very good response, i think I can clear this up. While I understand masturbation is subjective to the individual person, it has been my experience that it is bound by lust. By that I mean it goes hand in hand, forgive the pun ;) I am also aware that that is not always the case. So let's look only at the objective aspect of the act. The spilling of semen is written about in the OT Leviticus 15:16 it says that the spilling of semen causes uncleaness And the body needs to be cleansed with water and remains unclean until evening. So releasing semen causes the body to be unclean. As Christian our bodies are the temple of God Himself. So this statement can be said; masturbation causes the temple of God to be unclean. I cannot say that faith with allow anyone to do such a thing and anything outside of faith is sin.

Now let me also acknowledge this; Rom 14:14 I know and am convinced by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing unclean of itself; but to him who considers anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean. Masturbation is unclean to me, my conscience bearing witness with the Spirit condemns the act for me. But if anyone honestly sees masturbation as clean and not a sin then so be it for him or her.

Because it is not explicitly dealt with, masturbation will always be a personal decision it seems. But if you go into the heart of Gods word and read not just the words but the message, I believe there is plenty of evidence to make a sound affirmation that masturbation is sin. Thanks for the debate, great study tool. Really gets the wheels turning. You responses have helped form a new veiwpoint in this matter thank you and God bless.
On your first point, I've seen that before, plenty of times. If you read the surrounding passages, you will find that having wet dreams, having sex with your wife, and a few other common things that WILL happen no matter what are deemed "unclean." Uncleanliness is definitely not sin ~_o

On your second, I've never read that before =O I went ahead and read the entire chapter of Romans 14, seeing as it's a great way to get more into my Bible AND it helps me get a clearer picture of what's really being said =P Anyway, I think you were pretty close on what it said... If I gathered it right, the main points were-

#1- Do not judge one another on disputable matters (things that hold no real value, such as food you eat, baptism methods, clothes you wear, which days you consider holy, ect. I really believe masturbation would be included in this).
#2- If you doing something openly bothers your brother (in Christ), then it is no longer in support of your brother in Christ, and wrong by proxy (or something XD)
#3- If you think it's wrong and do it anyway, it's wrong, because you have no faith that it is right. However, if you FULLY believe that it is not wrong and do it, and it is a disputable action as mentioned above, then it is fine.

So basically, if I wish to masturbate, seeing as how I have no moral problem with it, then I can continue to do so. However, it is probably not something I should just openly present out there (internet's an expection? =P), as it might bother or confuse those of a weaker faith. On the flip-side, anybody who jumps down another's throat saying "It's evil and it should not be done, how dare you do such a thing??!!" is in the wrong.

So basically- if you feel that it's wrong, don't do it. If you don't really think it's wrong, then go for it. However, do not do it "in the face" of another believer who thinks it's wrong, as that starts unnecessary argument.

Sound right? =P
 
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Servantofiam

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Sounds right, almost, The Holy Spirit was not given until the ressurection so the body did not become the temple of God until then. So the unclean body means a lot more now than it did then, make sense? Let me ask it this way, if you were in the temple in Jerusalem back when it had the ark of the covenant would you masturbate there? This is not an exaggeration of what we are. We are the temple of God.

I agree with everything else though.
 
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Servantofiam

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Plus I forgot to say, masturbation unlike a wet dream is voluntary. What about the thoughts and lust that come along with masturbation? Where is your stance on them?
 
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Vidy

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Plus I forgot to say, masturbation unlike a wet dream is voluntary. What about the thoughts and lust that come along with masturbation? Where is your stance on them?
" 16 " 'When a man has an emission of semen, he must bathe his whole body with water, and he will be unclean till evening. 17 Any clothing or leather that has semen on it must be washed with water, and it will be unclean till evening. 18 When a man lies with a woman and there is an emission of semen, both must bathe with water, and they will be unclean till evening."

Context, sir, context ~_o So you're saying that being a Christian makes us temples of God, and as such, making it unclean would be sinful. Also, it is a voluntary action that makes us unclean, not something that naturally happens (like wet dreams or, a few verses later, menstruation).

However, look at verse 18! "If a man lies with a woman and there's semen, both are unclean and must wash." Wait, isn't sleeping with a woman voluntary??? Doesn't this happen at least once for every kid that's born? Is it now sinful to have sex with your wife if you don't stop early?? Of course not. The context is VERY obvious in that uncleanliness is NOT sin. This is just Jewish custom. Why God wanted them to bathe, I have no idea, but that's pretty much it.



Also, as I said in my first (I think) post here, this is a VERY daring view I'm about to say (again), and I will not be surprised if you disagree, but if you truly look closely at what Jesus was saying in the whole "If you look at a woman lustfully, you have committed adultery with her in your heart."... The literal meaning of this is- "If you entertain the thought of committing a sin, then it is just as bad as actually committing the sin." Now, what if you imagine a female-like frame- A faceless imagination to help stimulation? What if in your fantasy, you make it very clear that this will not be happening with whoever it is until you are wed? You have no desire to commit fornication or cheat on your wife- you just wanna... well... yeah. Does that verse really call this situation sin? I don't think so =P
 
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Servantofiam

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When a man has an emission of semen in bed with his wife you wrongly assume it's while their having sexual intercourse at the time. It doesn't say that and since we know sexual intercourse is natural and not a sin outside marraige it would be only right to assume the passage is more than likely talking about semen being emitted for pleasure outside of the womans body, foreplay or whatever. This makes both unclean and need to wash.

Yes I do disagree commiting sin only happens when you commit sin. But I do also believe if you dig a pit you will fall into it.
Ok Ive done little more research, and I'm going to let the bible speak, not me. If you disagree with this then fine, I believe this is the answer to the question we have been debating;
This is what the bible says; Leviticus 15:16 the spilling of semen makes the body unclean, it needs to be washed. 1Co 3:16 Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? To masturbate is to willing defile the temple of God by making it unclean. 1Co 3:17 If anyone defiles the temple of God, God will destroy him. For the temple of God is holy, which temple you are. Lev 10:10 that you may distinguish between holy and unholy, and between unclean and clean. The choice is yours in this matter to live a holy life or an unholy life. Nothing is taken out of context, it's plain for anyone to see that the willful emission of semen causes uncleaness which is unholiness. Now if you go back to 2 Timothy 3:1-6 you'll find that it speaks of people with no self conrol, lovers of themselves, lovers of pleasure than lovers of God, you'll also find these people are unholy or unclean. You don't have to be all the things that Timothy lists but you should want to be none of them.

My conscience and the Holy Spirit convict me of sin when I masturbate. God has helped me in many aspects to overcome this sin. My heart won't allow me to say masturbation is not a sin and now scripture also won't allow me to say it is not a sin. Like I said a long way back in my thread, the Pharisees and the Saducees got it all wrong because they only looked at the letter of the law and forgot the heart of it. This is my overall opinion, and because of scripture, my heart and the Holy Spirit I believe I'm am not lying when I say masturbation is a sin because it is not holy. And from this veiwpoint it is easy to discern the selfish, lustful unclean and therefore unholy act for what it is. I want to be holy, it is my hearts most honest and greatest desire. I commit my life to God in the pursuit of holiness.

That's all I got, I believe I have said enough to show a good solid scriptural arguement against masturbation without allowing anything to be misconstrued as out of context.
 
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Regarding uncleanness, now why can christians say that these verses dont have to be followed (ie we can eat pork and shell fish now):
Lev 7:19 And the flesh that toucheth any unclean thing shall not be eaten; it shall be burnt with fire: and as for the flesh, all that be clean shall eat thereof.


But this Lev 15:16 one is still active?


If God made unclean animals clean for us. Don't you think he would have also made unclean humans clean ?