Ok so last summer I went on a mission trip to Ecuador with TMI. Met a girl named Ella and had/have strong feelings for her. I made a great friend named Jack and he was a few years younger, but still a good guy. Anyway I got home after the entire thing and I felt god was calling me to start getting ready for a relationship. So I do extensive research on the topic and yada yada. A month later I decided hey I should talk to Jack. So I send him a text asking a question about if I should tell Ella about my feelings towards her. Conversation follows, “Hey jack I got a question.” Jack: “ok, what is it, what’s up man” Me: “Remember how I said, back in Ecuador about my feelings about Ella, I think god is leading me towards a relationship with her. What should I do?” Jack: “Has you talk to her at all sense you’ve been back” Me: “Yes I have, everyday or every few days” Jack: “same here So if that is what you think that god wants for you then go” Me: “Well I know god is preparing me for a relationship, it’s just should I wait longer before I confess my feelings?” Jack: “Maybe that be best” Me: (we talked about when I would see her again) and talked about the team we are both going on next summer (Ella is on the same team) Jack: “Sweet I’m going too” Me: “Sweet man, That will be awesome” Jack: “yeah, I have a confession to make.” Me: “ok, shoot” Jack: “I like her two, that’s the problem” Me: “lol ok then” Jack: “Not to bust your bubble but me her we’re really close” Me: “Well I will say this, I have goals that I’m going to need to complete so I won’t want to get in your way if you want to tell her. How you feel about her” Jack: “My brother told me to tell you let the best man win but that’s just my brother.” Me: “lol, You be the best man, I really can wait for god to give me another opportunity for me. Even thou it might suck, it won’t be bad. (Continued text 2 more times) When thinking about this I just want to say that maybe the way we are talking is not honoring :/, Remember what tanner said?” Jack: “yeah absolutely, agreed” (then he had to go to piano practice and conversation ended) so I’m not so sure what to do, he is my friend and I care about him a lot, but I also love Ella. (Sounds like a dramatic movie) anyway I need advice on this. I’m willing to give it up because Ik god probably has a different person in plan for me.