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I prefer using "we" also.... similar to the body of Christ.... all for one and one for all
And, yes we are all one in the body of Christ. So, should it then be "some for one, one for some" -- ya know, since not everyone thinks the same way as us Christians?
Hey Sarah, I just wanted to say that while there are some similarities among guys in what they are looking for, there are a lot of differences too. I'm glad that you haven't taken on the pessimistic view that there are no good Christian guys out there, though. It's so hard, but I think the best thing you can do is take your desires to God and know that He knows and cares deeply about your desire to be married one day, and simply seek to satisfy yourself in Him and become the best person you can possibly be in Him. While that might not be the first thing that comes to every Christian guy's mind, Christian men especially tend to see that godliness and that steadfastness in faith, and find that attractive. But you can only be godly and steadfast if you are satisfying yourself in God.
Also, this has been said already, but while the words man, guy, boy, etc. are probably interchangeable for you, what you really should want to hold out for is a man of God and avoid boys who can shave. A man of God will want to honor you physically, emotionally, and spiritually while a boy will simply want to use you selfishly. A man of God will want to serve you while a boy will only be happy if he is being served. So keep that in mind too
Also, this has been said already, but while the words man, guy, boy, etc. are probably interchangeable for you, what you really should want to hold out for is a man of God and avoid boys who can shave. A man of God will want to honor you physically, emotionally, and spiritually while a boy will simply want to use you selfishly. A man of God will want to serve you while a boy will only be happy if he is being served. So keep that in mind too
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If you'd read my post more clearly you'd have seen my point was about having the INTENT to change how you are perceived to make yourself more appealing by acting in ways that are not at all reflective of you. What you are trying to misapply using your twisted version of what i said, is not the same. People will have a tendency to Enhance parts of who they are that they may feel works in their favor, but this is not creating new aspects of yourself to pretend to be something that is not you at all in an attempt to get noticed by a larger group of people. And even the 'compromises' some people make could be seen as showing their true self. It shows that they are willing to be deceptive and dishonest in order to gain what they want.