We are told that everyone is selfish, but we also know that the loving Spirit of God strives with every individual, regardless of their spiritual standing, to raise their care factors, and so we have the miracle of a world filled with half decent people.
But whether this grace of God is appreciated to the point that it transforms the character, is another thing, don't you think?
Most of you would agree that, the most damaged human being can lean on God's faithful Spirit and experience a completely new life, and if this relationship is made a daily priority, selfish habits die.
Since God has provided His own love and strength for the human race to be holy, you can understand why He has the right to be disappointed in those who neglect decades of heaven's efforts to save them.