People you cant talk to

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enginseer

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I didnt write that dont put words in my mouth I didnt say.

sorry you are mistaken and I suggest you be more careful about what YOU write.

I sleep peacefully at night because God gives me sweet sleep and Jesus died for me.
I have already given my life to Him.
yeah by proxy because a policeman, firefighter and emt take care of your safety. so be a bit more grateful wherever you are.
 

Lanolin

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I remeber a friend who needed help, she rang the police for help but never made it home. It was found out that they disparaged her and didnt think she was worth helping, didnt listen to her pleas, it was a huge drama.

that was the culture of the police at the time to ignore sexual abuse. They have gotten better but still lives have been lost because nobody listened to women even if they were screaming.
 
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enginseer

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well if this world is so horrible, why don´t you take a speedy exit then ? I saw couple of your posts and all you do is dig out outlandish examples up to the extreme. if you live in such a crap sack world where your life is cheap, you are either tough as nails or simply good at telling stories. I personally tend towards the latter.

but yeah, since I lack data of whatever you say may be true nor not, I can tell you however that gratitude always fall short of genuine appreciation. In case you don´t know in most western countries people take on oath to serve their fellow man in HIS glory. So yeah, they are doing it by proxy and if you proclaim that they are violent, rude or unreliable, that is a public stance against the Lords servants.

I appreciate a man who will risk his body and life to save others any time. Be they veteran and old or young serving as the police or a fire fighter or an EMT, they will be worth talking to.

This may not be soft or cushy the way I wrote it and it is not meant to be, I just simply think dismissing serving people and generalizing your bad experience for a phrase is nothing to be taken lightly.
 

Lanolin

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she told them it was an emergency and they didnt believe her. There are transcipts of her calls and its clear they werent really listening to what she had to say, they had already judged her. she wouldnt have rung them if she didnt need help. she ws fearing for her life. This is what all citizens in our country are told to do call 111 for help in an emergency, well we soon found out our police force wasnt the help they expect them to be.

in australia its worse...they had a corrupt police force that was in cahoots with organised crime.
 
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enginseer

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she told them it was an emergency and they didnt believe her. There are transcipts of her calls and its clear they werent really listening to what she had to say, they had already judged her. she wouldnt have rung them if she didnt need help. she ws fearing for her life. This is what all citizens in our country are told to do call 111 for help in an emergency, well we soon found out our police force wasnt the help they expect them to be.

in australia its worse...they had a corrupt police force that was in cahoots with organised crime.

well then, why dont you build a rocket and find yourself a safe quiet corner on the moon, because nothing anyone of us would say, will find a positive response for you. you will always know a friend who had friend that had something happen to them
 

Lanolin

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If you are soldier and do your job by keeping the peace with peacemaking methods then I applaud you, its effective. if you dont and are slack then sorry I cannot respect that.
 

Lanolin

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well then, why dont you build a rocket and find yourself a safe quiet corner on the moon, because nothing anyone of us would say, will find a positive response for you. you will always know a friend who had friend that had something happen to them
uh..are you serious, or just being disparaging again, cos that attitude is not helpful. At all.

I know this friend she was my friend not a friend of a friend. LISTEN.
 
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enginseer

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If you are soldier and do your job by keeping the peace with peacemaking methods then I applaud you, its effective. if you dont and are slack then sorry I cannot respect that.
oh lady, you are so unhinged and rude.

here, let me help you. perhaps this is something more along the line of perception

16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:

17A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,

18An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,

19A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.


you have not contributed one uplifting thing after all the others tried to.
 

Lanolin

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People you cant talk to...people who put words in your mouth and dont believe you.

You tell them the truth and they assume you are lying. ugh. Come on this is a christian forum.

God tells us to listen to His son.
 

Lanolin

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look up Iraena Asher and learn from her story. Ok?

Otherwise give me your name. I dont have time for false accusations.
 
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enginseer

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no I am not assuming your lying. I am expressing the impression that you make things up.

well, you are not his son so I dont have to listen to you and indeed it is a christian forum in name.

you know I could have respected that you stood by your statements but here you go telling everyone who is not sharing the same opinion, putting words in your mouth.

you know what, I concede. do your thing, disrespect service people from second hand experiences and heap some more disrespect on people who find dismay in it. you are NOT really someone I CAN talk to because you always take the Lord´s name in vain in order to deflect and dissemble.

you win, I am already disgusted. have a nice day
 

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People with the content that they bring are like TV channels.. Some are cartoons, some are the news, education channel, some are talk shows, some are commercials/ advertisements, and so forth and so on. As for who i can talk to, and who i cannot it just depends on the topic. There is no point trying to draw out or have the expectations of educational content coming from Scooby Doo.
 

cinder

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I've found the best way to deal with people you can't talk to......... is the ignore button.
 

Lanolin

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It comes down to clashing or connecting personalities.

Not trying to boost my ego, but I can talk to almost everyone, at any age.

Whether they can talk to me is a different story :p
I can talk to God...about anything...I can talk to God...cos He is listening
I can talk to God when Im happy, I can talk to God when Im sad. I can talk to God about anything even the things that make me MAD!

I had one girl come up to me today and say she hated her teacher. I was quite shocked but I have seen a lot of things go on in school to know that some teachers, just dont connect with their students. they yell at them for not doing what they are supposed to when they havent even explained what they ought to be doing or shown them how. I dont know if its JUST personalities.
 

Lanolin

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I've found the best way to deal with people you can't talk to......... is the ignore button.
yep. Then you cant talk to them anyway. But when ignored they cant then talk back to you and put words in your mouth you didnt say. Even God doesnt like that when people claimed they spoke for Him but just made stuff up.
 

Lanolin

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People with the content that they bring are like TV channels.. Some are cartoons, some are the news, education channel, some are talk shows, some are commercials/ advertisements, and so forth and so on. As for who i can talk to, and who i cannot it just depends on the topic. There is no point trying to draw out or have the expectations of educational content coming from Scooby Doo.
I supoose if you are talking about how Jesus saved your life and then someone claims they dont believe it kind of stops the conversation.

Likewise if someone is a mad gun enthusiast and you then let them know that your family members got shot and killed they arent gonna wax lyrical about the merits of semi automatics weapons with you. I suspect.
 

Lanolin

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I found out that I cannot talk to white supremacists.

WHen they find out you are not white its like their world caves in.

Of course you dont always know if someone happens to be a white supremacist when you first meet them, but it does become evident over time their hateful attitude to people who they label 'other'.
 

Lanolin

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on scooby doo...
I actually do have books about Scooby Doo in the library.

This is to encourage children to read, and they are welcome to talk about Scooby Doo with me.

If I starts talking like Scooby Doo and ray reverything rike ris...
 

BrotherMike

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I have a hard time talking to people who are not nice and gossip. I’d rather stare at grass growing.
 

Lanolin

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agree i dont like talking to people who ask nothing but questions about other people it can get real boring fast.
Im like I am here please talk to me and stop asking about others who I dont even see hardly ever. why dont you talk to them yourself and ask them how they are instead if you really want to know about everything thats going on in their lives.