Politely saying 'no'

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Lanolin

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I had a friend disappear because she was afraid of being stalked. Nobody found her body.

Also, there have been bodies found in the bush of young women whod been killed/strangled by their ex partners when they refused to have sex with them
 

Lanolin

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Just sayin'

For many women, is easier to say yes and give in than to say NO and possibly be killed.
 

Lanolin

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Lord please protect women

I know it may sound like I am paranoid, but sadly its actually a common thing for men to get a woman alone then procede to violate her against her wishes.
 

G00WZ

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Someone asked me i would give a transgender a chance...

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G00WZ

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Was that a hypothetical, or did someone want to meet you?
It was a hypothetical question but because i live in California someone might have but no thanks lol.
 

Lanolin

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what has living in california got to do with anything...?
 

G00WZ

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what has living in california got to do with anything...?
In California they have a lot of gay people out here, and not just normal gay but extra "ghey" with an accent mark over it.
 

Papermonkey

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A baseball bat is an ever present help in time of trouble. Or some people prefer a pair of riot batons.
I like steel toe sneakers. Their handy, or is that footy? And look like regular shoes. ☺️👟
 

Lanolin

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In California they have a lot of gay people out here, and not just normal gay but extra "ghey" with an accent mark over it.
so?

Gay people are in all cities all over the world not just california.
 

Lanolin

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Though the toe weight does make for a formidable weapon if necessary.
hmm I would think the hoe, fork or spade would make a better weapon than. your shoes. Or your secateurs.

But why are we resorting to violence again? Cant a man just accept NO for an answer?
 

Lynx

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hmm I would think the hoe, fork or spade would make a better weapon than. your shoes. Or your secateurs.

But why are we resorting to violence again? Cant a man just accept NO for an answer?
Sure they can. Some choose not to. That's where the baseball bat or steel-toed shoes come in handy.
 

Papermonkey

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hmm I would think the hoe, fork or spade would make a better weapon than. your shoes. Or your secateurs.
Yes, but carrying a hoe around tends to draw looks when you're not in the garden. 😆

But why are we resorting to violence again? Cant a man just accept NO for an answer?
There are many men in prison now who are the answer to that question. 😔 It's a fallen world.

Not all men refuse to take no for an answer.
 

Lanolin

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well I never really used a hoe. Have a belt where I store my secaturs though, Jesus says swords can come out of your mouth...

some men are just thick and need a proper ear wax removal so they can hear better.