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Not all men will appreciate your move but a real and honest man will consider your advances. He will set logical traps to see if your appeal is geniune. And if he does find that they are, he will unreservedly open the gates to his heart to you. Personally, that is the kind of opportunity that will attract me.
When a girl makes a big move, it says a lot more about her intentions than when a guy does. When a guy makes a first move it says," I want to get to know you more."
When a girl makes a move it says, "I have this all figured out"
"Deep conversation, then 2 weeks later a first date, then another the following week, watching movies at each other's places 1 month away, then parental introductions 2 months away, One of us changing churches to be with the other person 2.5 months away, Small vacation together for the weekend 3 months away, exposure to finances and credit history 5 months away, inevitable 6 month mark engagement, then the marriage and I win. MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!"
That is how I picture the female mind at work^
When a girl makes a move it says, "I have this all figured out"
"Deep conversation, then 2 weeks later a first date, then another the following week, watching movies at each other's places 1 month away, then parental introductions 2 months away, One of us changing churches to be with the other person 2.5 months away, Small vacation together for the weekend 3 months away, exposure to finances and credit history 5 months away, inevitable 6 month mark engagement, then the marriage and I win. MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!"
That is how I picture the female mind at work^
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I'm feeling completely opposite. Can't imagine ever again making the first move. Didn't feel right about it. Had never done it before. Listened to someone else that I thought to be older and wiser. I should have listened to my gut.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either.
I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either.
I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
I'm feeling completely opposite. Can't imagine ever again making the first move. Didn't feel right about it. Had never done it before. Listened to someone else that I thought to be older and wiser. I should have listened to my gut.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either. I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either.
I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
And since trucks don't exist on the interwebs, I hope you have good medical insurance.
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I'm feeling completely opposite. Can't imagine ever again making the first move. Didn't feel right about it. Had never done it before. Listened to someone else that I thought to be older and wiser. I should have listened to my gut.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either. I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
Don't even trust myself at this point to read a guy's signals either.
I'm thinking his first move would have to be running me down with a truck for me to get it.
But doesn't it give a fresh perspective of what men go through thinking about asking us out?
Stick with your gut. If it doesn't feel right for you, it doesn't feel right. Instincts are there for a reason. But don't beat yourself with a stick about it, at least you tried it. Failure is not always a bad thing in my eyes.
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I've always felt kinda sorry for guys for having to take the lead here, especially in light of seeing how some women I've known have treated them.
If I'm being perfectly honest, I don't think I really tried because I wasn't comfortable with it. The only thing I feel like whacking myself with a stick about is entertaining the notion in the first place. haha It goes against all that I am.
I agree, Liamson, people are far easier to read in person and it's very easy to miss things, misunderstand things and over/underestimate people online. I think that's one of the reasons it's so important to take your time.
*reading insurance policy*
If I'm being perfectly honest, I don't think I really tried because I wasn't comfortable with it. The only thing I feel like whacking myself with a stick about is entertaining the notion in the first place. haha It goes against all that I am.
I agree, Liamson, people are far easier to read in person and it's very easy to miss things, misunderstand things and over/underestimate people online. I think that's one of the reasons it's so important to take your time.
*reading insurance policy*