I once got engaged before rededicating my life to the lord. I had given her a set amount that I had saved, and told her if she was going to be the one wearing it that she should have say in it. Does that mean was wrong.....no....was i right.....no. that's how I personally saw it. Hopefully that is an answer lol.
Would you be willing to go on a second date with someone who had a habit you didn't like. Example: always tapping, cracking knuckles, biting nails, stuff like that. Not including drugs , alcohol, you know something of that situation.