re-visiting the scene of the crime - getting back together with an ex

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iTOREtheSKY

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Donkeyfish07 said:
But what if it's like new wine. It tasted like crap the first time, so you pour it back in the bottle and sit in in the fridge awhile....and it actually tastes pretty good later on? :p
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Did I mention that I'm lactose intolerant? :p
I also don't drink wine (My Italian heritage weeps at this fact,yet true.) Now if we're talking Tequila,Rum or Vodka...then we can talk second chances.
Wait..we were talking about ex's,right? lol
 
Liamson

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I don't usually redate because usually how we got together in the first place was a little hokey to begin with.
 
Descyple

Descyple

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I once got back together with an ex - or at least I thought we were getting back together. We met in front of a judge's bench where she had me charged with "Inflicting Mental Insanity" on her.

I should have suspected something when she called me up 2 years after our breakup and said "I'll see you in court".

I thought it was her cute way of asking me out on another date. Next time I won't miss the obvious!!!
 
hoss2576

hoss2576

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I am actually still friends with all of my exes and not to sound funny, but all of them were pretty understandable. As a guy if I go a period where I haven't been socializing much/dating, the thought will cross my mind to revisit the idea of one of my exes. However, I come to my senses and realize it isn't a good idea. I have been blessed though where these women didn't necessarily have an "issue" for a lack of a better word, but it came down to our goals in life changed.

Honestly, if the guy/gal has fixed their issues and the mutual desire to date is still there, I don't see the harm in trying again. Time is a factor to consider though. If it has been a long time since you were together, it may not be the same type of relationship you had before.
 
Descyple

Descyple

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I once got together with all my ex-girlfriends at one time in one place. I thought it was going to be a joyful reunion, but it turns out they planned an intervention to stop me from dating other women (not because they were jealous, but because they didn't want other women to go through the havoc and dementia I put them through).

Hey, how come they were never that caring or considerate when I was dating them???

Interesting!!!
 
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