this is inspired by a recent thread about "do you pray for your ex?". it reminded me of something i've pondered in my own life recently.
as i mentioned in that thread, i'm friendly with my exes, especially one in particular. part of the reason i broke up with him (and canceled our engagement) is because of issues that he has now overcome and is, in some ways, the man who i wish he'd been when we were together. it's been interesting to watch that progression.
i've never been one to "get back together with exes" as i've seen others do. in fact, i refer to it as revisiting the scene of a crime.
but it made me curious about you:
have you ever considered returning to your ex if the issues that they contributed to the relationship's demise were resolved (assuming availability)?
have you gotten back with an ex? what were the compelling factors that brought you back? and how did that work for you?
as i mentioned in that thread, i'm friendly with my exes, especially one in particular. part of the reason i broke up with him (and canceled our engagement) is because of issues that he has now overcome and is, in some ways, the man who i wish he'd been when we were together. it's been interesting to watch that progression.
i've never been one to "get back together with exes" as i've seen others do. in fact, i refer to it as revisiting the scene of a crime.
but it made me curious about you:
have you ever considered returning to your ex if the issues that they contributed to the relationship's demise were resolved (assuming availability)?
have you gotten back with an ex? what were the compelling factors that brought you back? and how did that work for you?
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