Reasons You Should NOT Date Me

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Zi

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#141
So no long walks on the beach?
Yahweh_is_gracious said:
More reasons:

I'm not driven to "do more". I don't care to chase after awards an accolades. I don't need a promotion. I don't want bigger, newer, flashier things. I'm content with my life. I can adequately provide for my own needs, but not an additional person. You'd better take care of your own business.

Dating me is dating me. Nothing more. It's not a path leading towards marriage. I've already played the role of the cuckolded beta provider...twice. No need to play that game again. If you want to go out for dinner and have a nice meal and chat, cool. If you think it's something to make you change your "relationship status" on Facebook, think again.
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Zi

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#142
#142
You actually sound easier to date than most. Nobody has to fit the regular form to impress you
Yahweh_is_gracious said:
More reasons:

I'm not driven to "do more". I don't care to chase after awards an accolades. I don't need a promotion. I don't want bigger, newer, flashier things. I'm content with my life. I can adequately provide for my own needs, but not an additional person. You'd better take care of your own business.

Dating me is dating me. Nothing more. It's not a path leading towards marriage. I've already played the role of the cuckolded beta provider...twice. No need to play that game again. If you want to go out for dinner and have a nice meal and chat, cool. If you think it's something to make you change your "relationship status" on Facebook, think again.
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Yahweh_is_gracious

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#143
Zi said:
So no long walks on the beach?
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Depends on the intent behind the activity. If it's a walk on the beach, that's fine. If it's a way to try and be "romantic", it's going to be lost on me.
 
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Zi

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#144
#144
So you'd do it? That's all some people want.
Yahweh_is_gracious said:
Depends on the intent behind the activity. If it's a walk on the beach, that's fine. If it's a way to try and be "romantic", it's going to be lost on me.
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Lynx

Lynx

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#145
Zi said:
So no long walks on the beach?
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Who needs a girlfriend for that? If I want to take a walk down the beach I can walk by myself. Or I can walk down the beach with a girlfriend if I have one, if she wants to go for a walk.
 
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MollyConnor

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#146
I have depression.
 
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toinena

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MollyConnor said:
I have depression.
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No wonder. This is a depressing thread. Oh. That was your reason? Depression is a sign that you are alive. You can learn to live with it, take medications or go to therapy. The best medicine, however, is to pray and worship Jesus. And yes. I have depression too.
 
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