I don't remember giving this many Likes for a single thread - it's full of funny, witty, weird, edifying, comforting, and insightful postings. Well, that's more than enough reason for me to stay in CC Singles.
Ho11y, your "WHY ARE YOU HERE? 'CAUSE I GOT NOWHERE ELSE TO GO" was the funniest personally probably because there's some truth in that hahaha.
Blain, I can relate to where you are right now because that was exactly what I kept telling myself in my 20's (and even part of 30's). One thing I wanted to tell you is that we manifest our future through what we speak, especially us Christians, people believing in God who created the heaven and the earth through His spoken word. There's something powerful, powerful about things and thoughts that we speak out because we were created in His likeness - so I urge you with love to speak positive things about yourself because it is not what you have that determines your worth, i.e., money, car, job, etc, but when and only when you are defined by God and identified in Christ. Seriously, don't you think the One who created you has the sole right to determine your worth and label you? Stay positive brother for God knows the plan He has for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)