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Since we were the only two who have voted so far, I was curious to see the results. lol
Ok, to explain a couple of mine....I said yes to kissing on the first date if things went well because I don't imagine with my circumstances that I would go out/get asked out by someone who I do not know somewhat....so that is why I said yes to that.
Also I said that a guy should pay, and I said that the person that did the asking should pay (even though I said that guys should do that asking) LOL...confusing, I know....BUT...what I meant is that I am a traditionalist for the most part with roles etc....but I would not think it would be *reasonable* for me to suggest for us to get tickets to an expensive concert without being willing to pay. (that would be in a current relationship of course...make a bit more sense??)
Anyway...I like the poll Jullianna...good one.
Ok, to explain a couple of mine....I said yes to kissing on the first date if things went well because I don't imagine with my circumstances that I would go out/get asked out by someone who I do not know somewhat....so that is why I said yes to that.
Also I said that a guy should pay, and I said that the person that did the asking should pay (even though I said that guys should do that asking) LOL...confusing, I know....BUT...what I meant is that I am a traditionalist for the most part with roles etc....but I would not think it would be *reasonable* for me to suggest for us to get tickets to an expensive concert without being willing to pay. (that would be in a current relationship of course...make a bit more sense??)
Anyway...I like the poll Jullianna...good one.
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I think a peck on the cheek is okay, especially if you have known the person for a while.
I like to think all women like to be treated like a lady on a date. And I hope no men want to be treated like a lady on a date. LOL. no really you cant possibly know how hard I am laughing right now. It's outrageous. A guy saying he wants to be treated like a lady or a woman saying she wants to be treated like a gentleman. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
I like to think all women like to be treated like a lady on a date. And I hope no men want to be treated like a lady on a date. LOL. no really you cant possibly know how hard I am laughing right now. It's outrageous. A guy saying he wants to be treated like a lady or a woman saying she wants to be treated like a gentleman. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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Kissing on the first date? NO! Just NO!
Kissing is a sign of intimacy for someone you know well and care about and have some kind of commitment to. I don't see how one can have that after a first date. I think some just kiss because it's almost an unsaid formality. To me kissing isn't a formality.
As far as the woman paying. I think FOR SURE on the first date both should pay their way. There shouldn't be any reason for a woman to feel pressured for a second date or anything else after a first date. Some gals may feel pressured if he pays the first time.
After the second or third time, sure he can pay, but honestly, I still would prefer for her to pay, just because of the pressure on her thing.
Plus, getting to know someone shouldn't be about a series of events where you have to pay some admission or price to do something. Find some stuff to do that isn't a pay to do activity.
Kissing is a sign of intimacy for someone you know well and care about and have some kind of commitment to. I don't see how one can have that after a first date. I think some just kiss because it's almost an unsaid formality. To me kissing isn't a formality.
As far as the woman paying. I think FOR SURE on the first date both should pay their way. There shouldn't be any reason for a woman to feel pressured for a second date or anything else after a first date. Some gals may feel pressured if he pays the first time.
After the second or third time, sure he can pay, but honestly, I still would prefer for her to pay, just because of the pressure on her thing.
Plus, getting to know someone shouldn't be about a series of events where you have to pay some admission or price to do something. Find some stuff to do that isn't a pay to do activity.
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good poll, but theres one question you should have added, "I date non-christians and christians", I would have put that, I know a few married people where one was not a christian before and because of their love for the other person they ended up finding God. I know its still a bit of a sticky situation to get into but i'm not really looking just waiting
