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Live4Him3

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You cant just say Im a christian and would never do something like that. many might say they are christian then have a few drink and become decidedly unchristian when they are drunk.
Is this your attempt at justification for the ridiculous and Satanically-inspired things that you implied about me earlier?

Give it a rest, and try repentance instead.
 

Sculpt

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ok you dont seem to be joking around hmmm

:eek:

I am shocked its not nice being pushed down the stairs I can tell you. Or having your hair pulled
Actually, Lanolin, they very, very, very much, painfully obvious, seem to be joking around.
 

JohnDB

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So...
I'm happy to report that there is a matrix by with which men and women can now use to determine marriage viability.
 

Sculpt

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@Live4Him3

Now I'm not saying I would ever use this information, you understand, but can you tell us how you take over a woman's body?

;)
 
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What rules do certain residents of CC follow in their pursuit of love? I will offer a few insights of my own. The rules listed are of equal importance for myself.

Have no fear of rejection.

Develop a tolerance for pain as you may end up with a broken heart. Be strong for you will survive. Life will go on.

Faint heart does not win fair woman.

Marry only for love.

Pay attention to detail.

Accept the woman for who she is at this moment. Positive refinement comes only from God over a long period of time.

I must be willing to accept God's discipline for my own positive change that she may find appealing.

Be patient but let your resolve be resolute.

Pursue with wild abandon in your heart. Do not hold back.

Never settle for second best or someone else's hand-me-downs

Do not date for the purpose of having a one-night-stand, as that is vanity and pointless.

Do not pursue anyone that you would not consider marrying. Do not waste your time.

Offer only the best that has been provided by God. Do not lie. Be honest in all things.

Her feelings are more important than my own desires.

I do not believe in long, protracted engagements. Either you know what you want or you don't.

Play for keeps or get out of the game. This game is for serious players only and not the timid.

All is fair in love and war.
Amen , May the Lord help Christians to learn and practice all that , seems today that a lot of people are afraid to be themselves and to be honest and to show their weaknesses and to fail , or make mistakes and growing together as one . Seems a lot of relationships lack on putting Jesus as the foundation, as their standards to learn how to love like him ( unconditionally) .
May the Lord help us to be where he wants us to be and how to Love like 1 Corinthians 13 says 🙏🏻🙌🏻
May the Lord give us discernment and fear in our hearts to treat his children with respect and honor .
 

Live4Him3

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@Live4Him3

Now I'm not saying I would ever use this information, you understand, but can you tell us how you take over a woman's body?

;)
I wouldn't know.

That concept is so foreign to who I am that I couldn't even begin to formulate a guess.

Here are my actual thoughts on the matter:

Ephesians chapter 5

[28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
[29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
[30] For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

Now, let's see if anyone here can find fault with nourishing and cherishing.

It wouldn't surprise me if they do.
 

Lanolin

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thing is people pulling women by the hair and pushing them down stairs isnt nourishing and cherishing is it. Nor is kissing them with beer breath and vomiting on them either...or all the other things many men do in the name of love and courtship...

and men see fit to make jokes about that?

Just dont tell me that is something you joke about. I dont actually find it funny. I dont find cartoon pictures of body snatchers or photos of women being pulled by their hair loving. Those were actual women in the photos or just fake pictures of anonymous women who let you use their images?
 

JohnDB

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or is it just mock Lanolin day.
It's "Mock Lanolin Day". It is too close to Father's day.

They are just looking for a reaction. They know how to behave. But getting a rise out of you is fun too.
 

Lynx

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It's "Mock Lanolin Day". It is too close to Father's day.

They are just looking for a reaction. They know how to behave. But getting a rise out of you is fun too.
Nah. It's too easy. Shooting fish in a barrel.
 

Lynx

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Well in fairness it's his fault for letting his hair get long enough to use as a handle...
 

JohnDB

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Well in fairness it's his fault for letting his hair get long enough to use as a handle...
And if he was at a job working and providing an income....she might not be disrespectful....and he might have a few muscles.

Can't build muscle mass by playing with your cell phone all day.
 
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Mother, do you think they'll drop the bomb?