Technically, the guy is right though. Posting threads like this is not against the rules. People can post threads like this all day long if they want to. They are warned they might get bashed for it, but to quote the sticky for new users:
"Although Christian Chat does not prohibit posting threads seeking a mate you will find that those types of posts are replied to with disdain since by far most of our single users use Christian Chat are here for the fellowship, not to seek out a mate."