I know how it is. I see a lot of decent guys here frustrated with their situation. If you're always the good guy who keeps getting shot down, shoot me a message with what you're going through and I'll give you solid, Christian advice that will actually help you out (no, I won't just tell you to pray about it, I'll help you with the practical next steps).
I'm not selling anything, I'm just a dude willing to help out, who used to frequent these forums and wants to pay it forward.