I haven't been active much on here much these days commenting on posts ect.Yet I felt to comment on your thread.To be honest I kinda got what you meant from the beginning and I'm glad you clarified it more for us.Yes it's unfortunate what happened with those guys which is more a reflection of the wifes character that the husbands ability to satisfy her in bed..😔
There is absolutely NO guarantee that even if two virgins get married there won't be issues in the bedroom to...ranging from a lack of experience to embarrassment to even wrong expectations to different levels of sex drive.
For most males there is always that pressure to be an amazing lover and one way to wound a man emotionally is you say he is a rubbish or lousy lover...things can even get to the point whereby a women can find more satisfaction from sex toys that her actual husband..😔
If a guy meets someone who isnt a virgin this should in NO way make any difference and both will have expectations to some extent of each other.They should make time together learning about sex as Christian's, praying for God to bless their sex lives and being mature about sex and really realising that before God it is a new beginning for them sexually.
What happens with past sex partners is that someone can still have a connection with them without realising it and God needs to break it sometimes.Remember that the two become one and even though physical separated there can be soul ties ect that can hinder things in a new relationship.Some times a past lover can be the benchmark for all others...or their way of having sex can be missed,cherished ect..
Both have to learn about each others sexuality anew and if the wife will be comparing sexual performances with past partners she is actually opening herself up to a form of sexual idolatry because she is seeing that past lovers lovemaking in the wrong context..thus belittling her husband.So really from the outset they should both realise that this is the beginning of a new sex life and the bible says "forget the former things".
So much more I could say..
The basic mechanism of sex is universal however each persons likes,dislikes ect is unique to them and both should be willing to learn developed and grow in their sex lives with Gods grace and guidance.After all he made them both and knows exactly how to enhance their sex lives..
There is absolutely NO guarantee that even if two virgins get married there won't be issues in the bedroom to...ranging from a lack of experience to embarrassment to even wrong expectations to different levels of sex drive.
For most males there is always that pressure to be an amazing lover and one way to wound a man emotionally is you say he is a rubbish or lousy lover...things can even get to the point whereby a women can find more satisfaction from sex toys that her actual husband..😔
If a guy meets someone who isnt a virgin this should in NO way make any difference and both will have expectations to some extent of each other.They should make time together learning about sex as Christian's, praying for God to bless their sex lives and being mature about sex and really realising that before God it is a new beginning for them sexually.
What happens with past sex partners is that someone can still have a connection with them without realising it and God needs to break it sometimes.Remember that the two become one and even though physical separated there can be soul ties ect that can hinder things in a new relationship.Some times a past lover can be the benchmark for all others...or their way of having sex can be missed,cherished ect..
Both have to learn about each others sexuality anew and if the wife will be comparing sexual performances with past partners she is actually opening herself up to a form of sexual idolatry because she is seeing that past lovers lovemaking in the wrong context..thus belittling her husband.So really from the outset they should both realise that this is the beginning of a new sex life and the bible says "forget the former things".
So much more I could say..
The basic mechanism of sex is universal however each persons likes,dislikes ect is unique to them and both should be willing to learn developed and grow in their sex lives with Gods grace and guidance.After all he made them both and knows exactly how to enhance their sex lives..
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