I'm a planner. I also am weird in that I plan kind of...really far in advance. It's more wishful planning though.
Like "If I'm not married by next year and my roommate has moved out since she's going to be getting married and I plan on staying here a while, maybe I'll buy a house" and "If I buy a house, maybe I'll foster dogs, or have one of my own" or "If I'm not married by 30 I'm going to invest in a boat to have on the lake".
Lots of what ifs. Which are kind of dumb. I suppose I just like having backup plans in case what I would really like (to be married and such) don't happen. Not sure if that's sad or smart. Or both.
I know "God laughs at our plans" (though I think that's taken somewhat out of context) because to me, it infers that He laughs because we're just stupid human beings who have no idea what the future holds, and that's partially true as well, but I don't think it's a bad idea to dream or plan either, as long as we are open to different things. If I am to picture God laughing at my plans, it's less of a haughty "Silly Rachel. You know nothing" and more a gentle laugh, "You have no idea, Child, what is in store for you."
Like "If I'm not married by next year and my roommate has moved out since she's going to be getting married and I plan on staying here a while, maybe I'll buy a house" and "If I buy a house, maybe I'll foster dogs, or have one of my own" or "If I'm not married by 30 I'm going to invest in a boat to have on the lake".
Lots of what ifs. Which are kind of dumb. I suppose I just like having backup plans in case what I would really like (to be married and such) don't happen. Not sure if that's sad or smart. Or both.
I know "God laughs at our plans" (though I think that's taken somewhat out of context) because to me, it infers that He laughs because we're just stupid human beings who have no idea what the future holds, and that's partially true as well, but I don't think it's a bad idea to dream or plan either, as long as we are open to different things. If I am to picture God laughing at my plans, it's less of a haughty "Silly Rachel. You know nothing" and more a gentle laugh, "You have no idea, Child, what is in store for you."