You know, not really. Actually, they have been quite good. Helping them through hard times in their lives, reminding them of the good. One got divorced and didn't see it coming- his wife took everything from him and I went by his side and supported him through it. But the other- the other, I always am getting back with. Always desiring to get back with and he has no desire or love for me, and reluctantly accepts to be with me again. And I am so happy, but soon I feel dread. And I feel the consequences of that decision as a reminder to not desire it. It's more about myself than them when I dream of them.