Moms should feel perfect raising kids as the Lord leads them, His way should be their way. The most important thing to show your kids is love, and, not just any love but His Love, through you, shown to them. Kids will see your way of staying true to yourself to Him, even though, a lot of time, they will want to rebel, because it's fun to do things the wrong way, the 'flesh' way. But, stay strong, let the Lord lead you to His Truth. He is The Truth, afterall, not to mention, The Way, and, The Life, of which we get none of in our lives unless we go through Him. In some short-term situations, your kids may even, seemingly, hate you, 'I hate you, mom!' for doing things that are contrary to their fleshly, growing-up nature. But, God will calm that soul inside them as you pray and continue to go His way in your life.
Dad's, too, single and married, just like mom's, need to stay strong as the one God's using to raise them , He knows exactly how hard it is to raise kids, especially as a single, but, He in YOU will get you through, and, through, and, through, and, through, whatever it is, no matter how hard it seems to do, that you are going through. Faith in Him, He will get you through motherhood, fatherhood, any, 'hood of darkness meant by The Enemy to defeat you. God's victory was secured in 33 A.D. when His Son, Jesus, died on the cross, defeating sin and death, forevermore. His precious blood covers all you do go through, today, tomorrow, yesterday, forevermore. By His stripes we ARE healed
-----------------------