People say “I’ll never let you go.” But then they do because you make them angry by saying what you think is going on, and there it is. People don’t really want you to tell them what you think is happening. So two days after saying “I’ll never let you go,” they do- even though you pretty much say you don’t mind being the back up plan.
I've got "I'd be crazy to let you go. I'll never find anyone like you again" more than once. But those people are gone. One of which didn't wait a full week to start looking for a new man. Even went as far as to say guys like me were everywhere. Hmm...
I've also heard how they can't understand how other women didn't appreciate me. They aren't around either.
Or how about promising to wait a couple weeks before making any decisions about the relationship and less than 12 hours later breaking up?
I had a fiance disappear on me, no warning. When I finally got ahold of her, weeks later, she lied to me and hung up on me.
Or being dumped so they could be with someone they liked before me.
Someone tried to get me to break up with them over the course of weeks by trying to do everything they knew i disliked. Turns out there was some hidden motives behind it, and even once that came out they weren't honest about it all.
One girl on here tried a year to get me to date her, I never did. Came to find out she was engaged the whole time and lied about all kinds of things. She even had a miscarriage during this time and lied about that too.
Was with someone I was going to move out of country to be with. Then, out of nowhere, they ended the relationship.
I dated a woman that was torn between myswlf and another guy, but I convinced her to be with me. We were together for months when she told me that during the tome she was deciding she slept with the other guy and got pregnant. Told her it changed nothing for me, since we weren't dating at the time.
She was an ER nurse. I had had surgery and before fully recovomg got very sick. So for 2 months I laid around in misery, barely did anything, even watching tv. This nurse told me I wasn't being affectionate enough. Due to her words I broke up with her once I got better. She told me I only broke up with her because of her weight...
I've never had anyone break up because I told them how I thought things were. But then again people expect it with me.
Nor would I agree to be a backup plan. That's pretty much declaring "I'm a doormat" and minimizing your personal value. If you don't respect yourself enough to stand up for yourself don't expect someone else to.