So dredging up the past or harassing others is a "good thing"?that's news to me...
If memory serves correctly said individual,publicly apologized took full responsibility and vowed to be friendly though said individual already explained that they weren't seeking anyone explicitly,only telling how they felt about an individual and got railroaded like a freeway just as the other individual,and both individuals "haven't spoken romantically or explicitly" since and would rather have people "leave the past buried where it belongs" and let everyone start over as friends instead of as one individual said "beating a dead horse",seriously people make mistakes and life goes on if "people mind their own business" or "treat others as you would want to be treated" you know the things "mature" and "Christian" people do,then everyone can socialize harmoniously.