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I know you don't think I'm like that Jen...you know me well enough to realize that. Unfortunately there are people here that think I am out to "steal" their prospective mates...because god forbid someone laughs at one of my posts or "likes" it..or I say something "nice" to them in a thread. This suddenly means I want to "hook up" or am "looking".
Sometimes the funny thing about the whole difference of the sexes thing..yanno..how men & women differ on how they see stuff..relate,etc... Sometimes the most ridiculous,jealous,crabby people are within your own gender. True Story!
I'll share with you all a story. About how after a roughly 2 month hiatus I come back to CC & within a day I get a PM from someone I considered a friend. I respected them,etc...
Come to find out this person tells me (and I am kinda glad they did) that they were sort of relieved when I left CC briefly because it turns out that they were jealous of me because in their eyes I was receiving an over abundance of "attention" from the opposite sex. They admitted that they knew it was from their own insecurities,etc...
I was a little shocked,because I never would have thought this person would think that...seeing as how to me,they seemed easily as "popular" & well respected,maybe even more so than myself.
It was all good though..I tried to reassure this member that I indeed did not feel nor realized that I was taking the "spotlight" from him or any other male here & that Not one single woman in CC was interested in me in such a way that would even be considered as a possible future Mrs. iTORE.
I found myself apologizing. For what? I dunno...causing him to stumble???? It didn't matter. I did.
Funny though how not once in his "admission" of jealousy or irritation concerning me,did he even say he was sorry.
That's fine...I was cool with it. I was even happy when he shared with me that he was really interested & talking with a girl on here. Jokingly I said to him :"Well tell me who she is so I don't talk to her in a thread & she ends up liking me or something"...no response.
Now...said person...likes another girl...and I am apparently in his "terrible" people list.
So maybe the best thing is for all of the women of CC,just stop "liking" my posts...and stop responding to anything I say in threads...because this person may or may not be in "like" with you this week...and I don't want to be accused of trying to snatch up all the women here for myself.
Yeah...because I am so desired by so many.
*drops the mic & walks off*
Sometimes the funny thing about the whole difference of the sexes thing..yanno..how men & women differ on how they see stuff..relate,etc... Sometimes the most ridiculous,jealous,crabby people are within your own gender. True Story!
I'll share with you all a story. About how after a roughly 2 month hiatus I come back to CC & within a day I get a PM from someone I considered a friend. I respected them,etc...
Come to find out this person tells me (and I am kinda glad they did) that they were sort of relieved when I left CC briefly because it turns out that they were jealous of me because in their eyes I was receiving an over abundance of "attention" from the opposite sex. They admitted that they knew it was from their own insecurities,etc...
I was a little shocked,because I never would have thought this person would think that...seeing as how to me,they seemed easily as "popular" & well respected,maybe even more so than myself.
It was all good though..I tried to reassure this member that I indeed did not feel nor realized that I was taking the "spotlight" from him or any other male here & that Not one single woman in CC was interested in me in such a way that would even be considered as a possible future Mrs. iTORE.
I found myself apologizing. For what? I dunno...causing him to stumble???? It didn't matter. I did.
Funny though how not once in his "admission" of jealousy or irritation concerning me,did he even say he was sorry.
That's fine...I was cool with it. I was even happy when he shared with me that he was really interested & talking with a girl on here. Jokingly I said to him :"Well tell me who she is so I don't talk to her in a thread & she ends up liking me or something"...no response.
Now...said person...likes another girl...and I am apparently in his "terrible" people list.
So maybe the best thing is for all of the women of CC,just stop "liking" my posts...and stop responding to anything I say in threads...because this person may or may not be in "like" with you this week...and I don't want to be accused of trying to snatch up all the women here for myself.
Yeah...because I am so desired by so many.
*drops the mic & walks off*