Subtle ways to let someone know you are NOT interested!

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AsifinPassing

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*image in google labeled "23 tell-tale signs He's not interested" ...seriously..*

"Are you interested in me?"

"If I was, you'd have to me x,y,z, and it would mean that I had to be x,y,z..."

"..oh, and:"

 
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sunnysky31

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#43
in my group of friends, i'm "one of the guys," and so i've never had the problem of "he's interested, but i'm not." lol
I'm sort of with melita here. I have never had this issue. I'm more the laid back type when it comes to group settings and I don't really hang with only ladies or anything like that. I actually have more of an issue telling if someone even likes me in the first place. I don't really have people that just come up and start hitting on me like that. Even if they were flirting, doubt Id notice unless they flat out said it.

Anyway, I'm not one of those girls who likes the subtle hints and things. I have told men in the past, ''Hey, I'm not interested.'' I'm pretty outspoken. I also don't like when guys try to hint around with me. I think its a little immature (and yes to each their own). I just don't do well with that stuff and I would just prefer a direct approach.
 

Addison

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Just be straightforward with them. :eek:


 
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coby

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#46
Change your fb status into in a relationship (with Jesus lol)
If he then all of a sudden chats it means he just wanted to ask you something and sees you as a friend and is not interested.
I was so sick of it yesterday. Lord is this the one or not? How long do I have to wait? No response. Well then, You are the lucky One. Lol one other guy said congrats! Ow yeah I gave up on waiting. Dating Mr. Right now. Jesus.
 

AsifinPassing

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Yeah, um... I don't...really think he's interested...so...
 
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coby

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#49
............ double post
 
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coby

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#50
How come if I change my fb status he chats 2 hours all of a sudden? Funny.
 
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Abing

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#51
Would this thing work here.. "You deserve someone better." :rolleyes:
 
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MollyConnor

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#53
How about saying "I deserve better than you?" Lol
 

melita916

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I actually have more of an issue telling if someone even likes me in the first place. I don't really have people that just come up and start hitting on me like that. Even if they were flirting, doubt Id notice unless they flat out said it.
haha! i'm the same way. i can never tell if a guy was flirting with me. it's ok, though. i'm not interested anyway :p
 

Roh_Chris

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You could step on their little toe, nu?
 

Born_Again

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Hide everytime they walk into a room.
 

melita916

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tell him he's in the friend zone.

yes? does that work?
 
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Abing

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Oh I know! Show him your 'i woke up like this selfie'