I am glad you didn't say respected...that would have made my list so hard to even remember all the names no less type...[see how I complimented everyone, said no names on either listings, and ran like the wind, from controversy....whew!! that was a close one...Smile.] I have a special appreciation for two very different ladies I will say...SeattleGirl, and RoxxyRoller, but i could add many more so it seems unfair....smile. I have enjoyed spending many moments in the trenches of life with many of you, thank you all, even the men, but you ain't getting no stinking roses men!.....said with the accent...smile.. The term for me is Respect. Crush has many powerful, and fragile meanings...spooky scary.