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I once told myself 5 years ago, I'd be married in 2 years. It's 3 years later. 
I'd stay focused on what opportunties are presented before you and act accordingly. As far as your "list" goes, good luck to you in finding a guy with all of those qualities. I'd start by enrolling yourself in Harvard and working your way back out. Join the band and meet the guys who play saxophone's. See if any of them can swing dance. Then go down the list from there.
I'd stay focused on what opportunties are presented before you and act accordingly. As far as your "list" goes, good luck to you in finding a guy with all of those qualities. I'd start by enrolling yourself in Harvard and working your way back out. Join the band and meet the guys who play saxophone's. See if any of them can swing dance. Then go down the list from there.
wow... people who know me would have gotten a HUGE laugh out of that post. i guess i was too subtle.
i was being SARCASTIC lol i don't seek any of that stuff. not even a third was stuff i remotely care for. but still funny lol
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someone told me i'll be married and pregnant by next summer. you got a year. good enough of a challenge for you?
he has to play the saxophone.
and likes vegetables.
and loves to clean the bathroom and do the dishes.
he can cook.
he shouldn't be able to grow facial hair.
he must be able to swing dance.
and owns chickens.
teaches at Harvard.
have green eyes.
likes to hang blue christmas lights.
thinks santa is satan.
those are all the NECESSITIES.
good luck, dude.
he has to play the saxophone.
and likes vegetables.
and loves to clean the bathroom and do the dishes.
he can cook.
he shouldn't be able to grow facial hair.
he must be able to swing dance.
and owns chickens.
teaches at Harvard.
have green eyes.
likes to hang blue christmas lights.
thinks santa is satan.
those are all the NECESSITIES.
good luck, dude.
R
LOL thanks bro. sure send me his number. i'm sure his parents would LOVE it! and so would the police! haha
although.. when you think about it.. it's kinda creepy how there are married people who years before, would have been in such a position.
one of my colleagues has a step-dad who went to the same school WITH her. meaning.. when kristen's mom was picking her up from school, so was her step-dad's mom. there is only a few year's difference.
there are happy and healthy marriages out there with people who could have babysat each other at some time. lol
although.. when you think about it.. it's kinda creepy how there are married people who years before, would have been in such a position.
one of my colleagues has a step-dad who went to the same school WITH her. meaning.. when kristen's mom was picking her up from school, so was her step-dad's mom. there is only a few year's difference.
there are happy and healthy marriages out there with people who could have babysat each other at some time. lol
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Yeah, I know what you're saying, although I'm not sure I would be one of those people! I couldn't date a girl that was below 20, for instance. The maturity level is WAY too far apart, and well... I couldn't handle it. I wouldn't want to babysit my girlfriend haha!
That being said, I know plenty of girls at the age of 21 dating 30 year old men. I find that weird personally. When I'm 30, if I was still single, I definitely wouldn't date below the age of 25. 5 years is my max really. I have had women around the age of 35 who have hit on me and attempted to date me while I was in the navy... but... I think that was more of a novelty "cougar" and her "cub" type of thing. They said age didn't matter, and I guess it doesn't, but it still bothered me enough to not do it. I guess I figure 5 years in either direction is my max. Any more than that seems like too big of a gap in the mental/maturity/growth as a person areas. A person at 21 for instance, will NOT be the same person they are at 30. So, a 30 year old dating a 21 year old is either only looking for sex, or they are desperate (in my opinion).
That being said, I know plenty of girls at the age of 21 dating 30 year old men. I find that weird personally. When I'm 30, if I was still single, I definitely wouldn't date below the age of 25. 5 years is my max really. I have had women around the age of 35 who have hit on me and attempted to date me while I was in the navy... but... I think that was more of a novelty "cougar" and her "cub" type of thing. They said age didn't matter, and I guess it doesn't, but it still bothered me enough to not do it. I guess I figure 5 years in either direction is my max. Any more than that seems like too big of a gap in the mental/maturity/growth as a person areas. A person at 21 for instance, will NOT be the same person they are at 30. So, a 30 year old dating a 21 year old is either only looking for sex, or they are desperate (in my opinion).