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ChristianGuru that is. It wasn't 12 hours ago that a lady a few years my junior messages me asking me what's up. I tell her I'm waiting for my friend to come online. She asks why? I say he needs my advice on how to know if a woman likes him. Kind of shocking to here a 30 yr old ask. She tells me I should spend less time playing match maker and match myself with someone who likes me. Her. Referring to herself. I LOL'd.
Hi, I'm ChristianGuru and when I'm not doing audio broadcasts for Christian Singles and Christians in general on my YouTube Channel, MarkAmerica1, I'm here looking for anybody I can find that I can possibly help.
Like Will Smith in the movie "Hitch" I too was a struggler in my younger years. I was that guy growing up in youth group, who couldn't wait to grow up so I could finally meet "my future wife" and get married. At 21, the time came, my future wife arrived and 5 months after we first me told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. My little world was shaken and was never to return. Once a mind grows it never returns to it's original state.
Over the past few months on here I've seen numerous messages from men and women alike asking questions.
The best answer that I could ever give anybody... is that your problems, questions, concerns and fears are capable of meeting resolve. Every person has things to deal with, goals to accomplish, the ever elusive victory. You'll reach your destination, you'll win and walk off into the sunset. The catch is... once you walk off into the sunset, the next phase or new problems arise.
This is where I tell everyone... life is a process... a process that lasts the entire duration of your existence on this planet. The key is to embrace the process, embrace the defeat, embrace the failure and know that pain is your gain.
You step up to your fear and your rewards are moral victory and personal growth. Before you even get any advice on meeting women, asking women out, getting a girlfriend, getting engaged, try to figure which church to get married in, which Pastor going to marry you, what color flowers your wife wants for your wedding, you're going to have to face this. Defeat happens. I liked a girl in church for years from the time I was in middle school to high school, we never ended up dating, but I felt so much stronger after I just simply approached her and we talked. It allowed me to ask out the next girl I liked so much easier. If I could overcome this fear, I could overcome any fear.
Pro athletes face failure every season, the champions of every sport almost never go undefeated or unwounded. It's about stepping up to what you fear most, facing it and be unphased by victory or defeat.
Hi, I'm ChristianGuru and when I'm not doing audio broadcasts for Christian Singles and Christians in general on my YouTube Channel, MarkAmerica1, I'm here looking for anybody I can find that I can possibly help.
Like Will Smith in the movie "Hitch" I too was a struggler in my younger years. I was that guy growing up in youth group, who couldn't wait to grow up so I could finally meet "my future wife" and get married. At 21, the time came, my future wife arrived and 5 months after we first me told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. My little world was shaken and was never to return. Once a mind grows it never returns to it's original state.
Over the past few months on here I've seen numerous messages from men and women alike asking questions.
The best answer that I could ever give anybody... is that your problems, questions, concerns and fears are capable of meeting resolve. Every person has things to deal with, goals to accomplish, the ever elusive victory. You'll reach your destination, you'll win and walk off into the sunset. The catch is... once you walk off into the sunset, the next phase or new problems arise.
This is where I tell everyone... life is a process... a process that lasts the entire duration of your existence on this planet. The key is to embrace the process, embrace the defeat, embrace the failure and know that pain is your gain.
You step up to your fear and your rewards are moral victory and personal growth. Before you even get any advice on meeting women, asking women out, getting a girlfriend, getting engaged, try to figure which church to get married in, which Pastor going to marry you, what color flowers your wife wants for your wedding, you're going to have to face this. Defeat happens. I liked a girl in church for years from the time I was in middle school to high school, we never ended up dating, but I felt so much stronger after I just simply approached her and we talked. It allowed me to ask out the next girl I liked so much easier. If I could overcome this fear, I could overcome any fear.
Pro athletes face failure every season, the champions of every sport almost never go undefeated or unwounded. It's about stepping up to what you fear most, facing it and be unphased by victory or defeat.
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