The most annoying thing about my relationships
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I hope so too..... hahaha naaaaw
but you know it actually took quite alot for me to own up to the fact that I was doing it. So to say I fell deeply in love with my best friend and first boyfriend at 16 and when it ended horribly, I was out on the hunt to find someone greater than him to help heal my broken heart. We went our separate ways 4 years ago and just recently I've finally been able to get over him.
And so guys after guys that I dated after him although they were great, they weren't him. I would find myself comparing them to him and telling myself that they would never measure up to him because 'they' were not i wanted, 'he' was.
I never really gave them the chance for them to get close enough to me for me to be able to love them, all because I was so badly hurt from this first relationship that heart break was a feeling I did not want to feel ever again.......
I guess after i rededicated my life back to Christ I was able to see where I had gone wrong and what I was doing and let God heal my heart instead of finding some boy to be able to do that.
but you know it actually took quite alot for me to own up to the fact that I was doing it. So to say I fell deeply in love with my best friend and first boyfriend at 16 and when it ended horribly, I was out on the hunt to find someone greater than him to help heal my broken heart. We went our separate ways 4 years ago and just recently I've finally been able to get over him.
And so guys after guys that I dated after him although they were great, they weren't him. I would find myself comparing them to him and telling myself that they would never measure up to him because 'they' were not i wanted, 'he' was.
I never really gave them the chance for them to get close enough to me for me to be able to love them, all because I was so badly hurt from this first relationship that heart break was a feeling I did not want to feel ever again.......
I guess after i rededicated my life back to Christ I was able to see where I had gone wrong and what I was doing and let God heal my heart instead of finding some boy to be able to do that.
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This is why I always break it off while things are still going great! 
Of course then they stalk me and I have to file a restraining order but hey whats a little legal action compared to never having a relationship you regret!
Plus it seems to make me more attractive to women when they find out I have a few stalkers in my past
Of course then they stalk me and I have to file a restraining order but hey whats a little legal action compared to never having a relationship you regret!
Plus it seems to make me more attractive to women when they find out I have a few stalkers in my past
86 stalkers -- I have one -- not fun
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Lol, honestly thinking about it, I have SO many "faces" I can put on. They're all "me" though, I'm not pretending. It's weird how I work XD
But yeah, the only "unpleasant" side of me that I can think of is probably when I get super-serious on stuff and try to power-logic my way out of it, even if it requires more emotional st0ffs than brainpower. I can see how that would get pretty annoying in a relationship lol. Other than that, I'm basically the "chill" person I am everywhere else, and not much gets me me, ftw ^_^
My main problem with relationships is not the girl showing another side of herself. It's just that her mom usually ends up being some psychotic crazylady. No, not just my current ex, but 3-4 of my past girlfriends, and even the girl I'm kinda considering now -.- What's up with all the crazy moms??!?! lol
But yeah, the only "unpleasant" side of me that I can think of is probably when I get super-serious on stuff and try to power-logic my way out of it, even if it requires more emotional st0ffs than brainpower. I can see how that would get pretty annoying in a relationship lol. Other than that, I'm basically the "chill" person I am everywhere else, and not much gets me me, ftw ^_^
My main problem with relationships is not the girl showing another side of herself. It's just that her mom usually ends up being some psychotic crazylady. No, not just my current ex, but 3-4 of my past girlfriends, and even the girl I'm kinda considering now -.- What's up with all the crazy moms??!?! lol
