the not kissing before marriage game

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Adstar

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Just looking though this 10 year old thread and the User Soulsearch braught back good memories :) I hope she is doing well where ever she may be..

Oh and kissing is not all bad:: But if a person cannot control themselves then kissing is bad for them..

2 Corinthians 13: KJV
11 "Finally, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of love and peace shall be with you. {12} Greet one another with an holy kiss. {13} All the saints salute you."
 
Solemateleft

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RoboOp said:
oh and then she shares with you that she unintentionally went a little too far with just a few of those guys.. just went a little too far (kinda unintentionally "crossed the line" and had sex) with just a few of the 20 Christian guys that she made out with
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Ya, this would be a whole new paradigm... I would be one of those that it would be just unrealistic, incomplete, and likely lead to even more emotional anxiety than just abstenance. I am inherently a compassionate person, I am wired to believe that showing affection (holding Hands, hugs, kisses, even cuddling) with selective persons is an endearing means of showing that they are special, unique and loved.
Additionally, numbers are just numbers and when shared honestly they can bring balance, perspective and understanding.
Besides, the past is the past, and as Christians are we not supposed to be forgiving and not judging of others as he would?
 
LetThereBePeasOnEarth

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RodB65 said:
(So, she slowly stirs my coffee a bit...)

I'm thinking to myself, she just put sugar in my coffee and she stirred it... Oh no she didn't,.. Oh yes she did...

by this time, I notice that she has moved much closer to me. I turn to look at her and....

My alarm clock starts blasting the hallelujah chorus...

just a dream...

I sigh deeply... :cautious:
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Lighthearted said:
That's so sad😩😭
Maybe her next move would have been to get close to you and drink your coffee! That would have been a nightmare! 😮😲
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Beware of me then Rod, because I'd have been the woman that Lighthearted warned you about! LOL No time for love when there's a fresh hot cup of coffee sitting there. Wouldn't want it to get cold!! ;) (well... ok.. close and affectionate is best.. but at least allow for a sip or two of coffee first please! ;) lol) So, I guess I wouldn't qualify as a total nightmare since I would at least share your coffee with you :D LOL (hopefully you will take this in the spirit it was meant in. just being silly :) )
 
LetThereBePeasOnEarth

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RodB65 said:
(So, she slowly stirs my coffee a bit...)

I'm thinking to myself, she just put sugar in my coffee and she stirred it... Oh no she didn't,.. Oh yes she did...

by this time, I notice that she has moved much closer to me. I turn to look at her and....

My alarm clock starts blasting the hallelujah chorus...

just a dream...

I sigh deeply... :cautious:
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<plonks a 5# bag of sugar down on your desk> So, Rod... have any fresh coffee ready??? :D lol
 
KDW4Him

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For me the "no kissing" was from the perspective of the most romantic thing a husband and wife can share is a kiss. Therefor why not save that kiss for when we are husband and wife? That was a choice I made as a baby Christian in 2005.

I was able to live that out in 2016 and very glad I(we) did. I would not have traded it for anything.
 
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LetThereBePeasOnEarth said:
Awesome to know that there's fresh coffee around!!! :D (but.. as a public service announcement, you might want to be careful about using that particular phrase when answering a question on a singles forum post!! ;) hahahahaha)
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Yes, you are absolutely right!
 
LetThereBePeasOnEarth

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RodB65 said:
(So, she slowly stirs my coffee a bit...)

I'm thinking to myself, she just put sugar in my coffee and she stirred it... Oh no she didn't,.. Oh yes she did...

by this time, I notice that she has moved much closer to me. I turn to look at her and....

My alarm clock starts blasting the hallelujah chorus...

just a dream...

I sigh deeply... :cautious:
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coffeepot.jpg :p
 
JosephsDreams

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I would want to kiss, cuddle, hug. As long as both people could leave it at that I think it is a wonderful expression of love and intimacy.
 
Mel85

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JosephsDreams said:
I would want to kiss, cuddle, hug. As long as both people could leave it at that I think it is a wonderful expression of love and intimacy.
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I’m the same as you, I like to be affectionate which includes hugs and cuddles.

I guess that’s why I scored 2nd for Physical Touch for the 5 Love Languages test.
 
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