The Pros & Cons of where you live (and other assorted tidbits)

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DuchessAimee

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#21
I live in California. As most of you know, I hate this state.


Pros:

The Ocean
Many different types of beaches (meaning sand) because the coast line is 864 miles long.
We have TONS of Great Whites
We have every type of geopgrahy

Cons:

The politics
Same sex marriage
You can't voice your opinion because you might get sued
(At least where I am) Churches suck around here
Too many people who call themselves "hippy"
Too many Hipsters
It's so stinkin' hot in this valley it's ridiculous
People are VERY critical about their (and your) appearance
The economy is awful
Hollywood
Hipsters
Methlabs (but not as many as we once had)
The school systems of all types are sooooooo messed up
Gangs are state/nation wide
I live in the 3rd worst city housing collapse in the nation
Hipsters
Smog
SF has one of the worst crack problems in the nation (And I live about 90 miles away)
And much, much more.


I'm moving away ASAP.




Oh, and the hipsters.
 
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Hellooo

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#22




Pros:

- Competitive cost of living
- No state tax
- Incredible cultural diversity, particularly the further south you go.
- Great university system, comparatively cheaper than other state universities..in a lot of cases even for out of state students
- For music enthusiasts, we have several orchestras, ballet companies, lots music festivals, concerts
- For food enthusiasts and gourmets....a foodie haven, especially if you love ethnic cuisines (CUBAN!!), food trucks, and food festivals (seafood <3 ).
- Plenty of theme parks and attractions..Disney, Universal, Sea World, Busch Gardens, etc
- Beautiful islands...my favorites are Key Largo, Key West, Amelia, and Sanibel
- Fresh water springs (tubing!!)
- We have the U.S.'s oldest city and the U.S's biggest city by geographical size
- The beach
- Warm weather.. I'm not into wearing a bunch of layers, scarves, gloves, etc...I like being able to still wear dresses in the dead of winter, and only having to add tights and a sweater
- You can take random cruises pretty cheaply as a resident
- Citrus fruit
- Big fat dopey, lumpy-bodied manatees.

Cons:

- No basements in most of the state, due to being at sea level
- Lots of rain in the summer - I keep an umbrella in my car, at home, and in my desk at work just in case.
- If you aren't comfortable with heat or humidity, or if your car doesn't have AC, you'll be miserable.
- Hurricanes (usually not that bad, but some years can be a real disaster)
- Miami International Airport.
- We seem to get a lot of the more bizarre crimes, and usually fall in the top 10 lists of most sex offenders
- The public transportation system in most of the state is not very efficient
- K-12 education
- The real estate market was hit really hard 4-5 years ago...central FL was hit really hard but it is definitely recovering
- Driving - I don't mind the slower elderly drivers, but everyone just freaks out behind the wheel when it rains. Also, get used to no turn signals.
- Lovebug guts splattered on your windshield
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#23
I live in California. As most of you know, I hate this state.


Pros:

The Ocean
Many different types of beaches (meaning sand) because the coast line is 864 miles long.
We have TONS of Great Whites
We have every type of geopgrahy

Cons:

The politics
Same sex marriage
You can't voice your opinion because you might get sued
(At least where I am) Churches suck around here
Too many people who call themselves "hippy"
Too many Hipsters
It's so stinkin' hot in this valley it's ridiculous
People are VERY critical about their (and your) appearance
The economy is awful
Hollywood
Hipsters
Methlabs (but not as many as we once had)
The school systems of all types are sooooooo messed up
Gangs are state/nation wide
I live in the 3rd worst city housing collapse in the nation
Hipsters
Smog
SF has one of the worst crack problems in the nation (And I live about 90 miles away)
And much, much more.


I'm moving away ASAP.




Oh, and the hipsters.
My ex-wife visited SF before she left to go back to the UK after our divorce & she mentioned that she was really bummed out that it wasn't anything like she thought it was going to be. I often have thought about visiting just to see where I was born,but the more & more I hear about it,the less I find myself wanting to go there. Good luck Aimieeeekins in finding a new place to re-locate...hopefully you'll move closer to me,so we can go do some coffee! ;)
 
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MissCris

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#24
Western Colorado (see how I did that, as though it's a state all on its own? Cuz it should be...and I don't know much about them folks over them there mountains nohow):

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(This is how we do 'irony' out here in the boonies)

CONS
-Sage brush.
-Most towns are at least an hour apart, down boring stretches of highway.
-Deer, elk, and antelope like to hang out on those lonely roads and jump in front of you at 11:30 pm when you've been driving ALL. DAY. I think they like the sound of squealing tires, breaking glass, and crunching metal.
-The deer here are very uppity and judgy.
-We don't get a whole lot of "spring", usually. We go from winter to...not quite winter...to summer pretty fast.
-"Elk Hunting Capital of the World". 'Nuff said.
-Summer days are frequently 100+ degrees, while winter days are frequently -20 degrees. At least it's....variety...I guess.
-I have to drive 3 hours in any direction to be able to shop for decent clothes.
-Cottonwood trees.
-June Bugs
-Mormon crickets (watch out, they'll try to convert you)
-Boxelder bugs

-Oil rigs


PROS
-Lots of outdoor activities nearby; skiing, hiking, camping, rafting.
-Population spread out so nobody feels "crowded".
-Wide open spaces (ew, that's a Dixie Chicks song I think)
-Valleys
-Aspen trees
-Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory
-...drat, I'm out of good things to say about this place. In that case, here's a pretty picture...

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GreenNnice

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UK is all gray, ItoreHis, bro, and, LOL, royalaim, it sounds like as you list the 'cons' for Cali, you are like, with every point saying to yourself, 'I'm leaving here,' and, 'I'm leaving here real soon.' 'I am LEAVING HERE ASAP ! ' :D

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hellooooooo, you forgot the 'conch,' milady :D
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western colorado, mizcris, sounds a lot like all of New Mexico sans the adobe, and, oh wait, I drove thru the adobe aream of NM, that is only a small section of the state, tis was beauty to behold though, all that MAROON rock :D

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But, yeah, I'll go that vein , I am NOt in eastern Washington which is sagebrush and towns and NO BEACH and not nearly as much as dear bro, liamsON put it, 'urban sprawl.'

Pros:

It's all here when it comes to urban sprawl, plus, I fished two weeks ago to catch salmon in my friend's place river that almost runs through his property. The beautiful Mount Rainier is visible most anywhere on a clear day, 14,000+ feet high with snow-capped peaks summertime and snow-everywhere beauty all other seasons. We have the 'Puget Sound' which is with islands far off to see, or, close by, depending on where you live. We have big bridges, like the Narrows, that show how majestic is this land of the Lord's. Trees, trees, and, more trees. Everygreens. Can you say 'green' and 'nice' for nature's beauty of trees laced with ravines and trails and the only other place I can think of like here, in this way, mountains included, is northern California and parts of Oregon. Montana has its beauty, albeit more flat, and, different than here, and, badlands cool to see in South Dakota, and, Ohio has its cool falls of rolling small hills and leaves, 'Charlie Brown' country I call it, at least, where I was, in Wooster in 1996. And, Florida is Florida, pretty much a flat scenic state with sunshine and water AND ORANGES, LEMONS, GRAPEFRUIT fresh that taste sooo different than the stale pieces here stores call fruit, and, Alaska was Sitka for me, a small island, all I remember is the gray days, and, rain, which we have in Puget Sound but, yeah, which comes to Chicago, I've not been there, but think the 'windy city' not being as windy as liamsON's eastern Idaho lands odd thought, LOL, and, Virginia is Richmond for me, I think, I went to Smithsonian, it has historical museums and battle areas, which leads me to my state again, we have Wild Waves close by and summertimes i've spent $60 for a season pass (no kidding!) and just sit in the sun and praise God for the blessing of boogie boarding in a natural wave pool and going on big water slides of 'tourist' quality and rides that are not exactly Valencia Magic Mountain but are cool, like we have the world's largest wooden rollercoaster, or, at least did for awhile as someone's probably outbuilt us by now. Ahh such is capitalism ! :)


Cons:

My state has stinky vegetables a lot of time and I already mentioned the fruit. At my great aunt's in San Bernadino, I eat lemons off the trees and they taste fresh, edible like an orange, which is NOT the case in Washington. Our lemons are tooo sour to eat here, without throwing them with water and sugar.

I would like to see the battle stuff of Virginia and I'll glom in Smithsonian, I loved looking at the history of World War 1 museum in the Kennedy Space Center museum in Cape Canaveral, too. Oh, I guess that wasn't the Smithsonian, was it, that was Florida. hellllllloooooo, greeeeen, is there anybody home :D

I would like a more laid back lifestyle, at times, just commune with the cacti variety, like Nopalea, and, Sagarus ? and, oh, Il like snakes, BIG copperheads, I hear, are there, I'd love to see one on a big rock, and, yeah, we have 'garter' snakes here and they are harmless and smell horrible, so, yeah, I hate our snake variety. The southwest flavors of New Mexico--and, sorry, mizcris, I would have to drive through western colarabi before making the decision to include you in NM to-do fare--appeal to me and I remember that you had an all you can eat KFC there and that was finger-lickin' good grub there, chickadees :D
 
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GreenNnice

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Note: you all on here gave very nice itineraries of you state and things I didn't know before, like ItoreHis ! Really, lobsters in Maine more expensive than anywhere else about . I remember a blue lobster I had there, it was like 8.95 , 'course that was 1993, i was also in maine during a record breaking july day, the sand was so hot you couldn't touch it with your feet for long at all. :)

oh, wait, that's not right, actually, I think i had that 'blue' lobster in Boston :D
 
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kenthomas27

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#27
Tennessee

Pros -
It's bordered by more states than any other in the Union. It's like all the other states said "no - you can have that part" back and forth and left this long thin strip.

Diverse landscape from the mountains in the east to the Delta bottoms in the west

Trashvill - I mean Nashville - country music capital. Only now it's like a bunch of Holllywolf wannabee country singers bought cowboy hats in Donnelson's "City Switchers". It's a little like finding out Creedance Clearwater Revival were all from California. The musics great - just kind of a let down.

Cons

Of course, we're all related.

We're all Scot Irish. All of us have hard R's in our language. Nashville sounds like Nashvl. The ville just falls off altogether. Rrrrrrrrr matey.

We can flat grow something that kills millions of people - tobacco. Quite proud of that. Actually worked a farm that grew tobacco harvested for snuff and chewing. We snubbed the cigarette people and were better than they were.

You have to know how to handle explosives if you want a septic tank.
 
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GreenNnice

Guest
#28
Tennessee

Pros -
It's bordered by more states than any other in the Union. It's like all the other states said "no - you can have that part" back and forth and left this long thin strip.

Diverse landscape from the mountains in the east to the Delta bottoms in the west

Trashvill - I mean Nashville - country music capital. Only now it's like a bunch of Holllywolf wannabee country singers bought cowboy hats in Donnelson's "City Switchers". It's a little like finding out Creedance Clearwater Revival were all from California. The musics great - just kind of a let down.

Cons

Of course, we're all related.

We're all Scot Irish. All of us have hard R's in our language. Nashville sounds like Nashvl. The ville just falls off altogether. Rrrrrrrrr matey.

We can flat grow something that kills millions of people - tobacco. Quite proud of that. Actually worked a farm that grew tobacco harvested for snuff and chewing. We snubbed the cigarette people and were better than they were.

You have to know how to handle explosives if you want a septic tank.
LOL, to tobacco quip, kentom, and, yeah, I never been to any parts of Tennessee, but, I'm guessing, say 'Lane Kiffin' anywhere and it's worse than saying a swear word. Any consolation, Kiff's having a tough time at USC now :D
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I went to Charlotte, fllighty, when I was at my church and going on a missions trip, so, I KNOW NC, well, at least, I know, Charlotte and we did go off to some church somewhere and on the way I did see tobacco fields forever. So, kentom, bro, they are ONLY semi-forever in TN I can only assume :D

but seriously, what a place for me, God really worked there on me, he helped mend my relationship with my dad on a $200 payphone call, he helped me go into urban city areas and meet people that were in need and two little special girls that I got to know who I won't forget the 9 year olds screaming on the last day there, at night, after a spaghetti feed. The girl was uncontrollable, and, she saw me, who walked with her and her sister for two days passing out flyers after I first met them at their small shack of a house in inner city char. She saw me and said, in sobs, 'I lost my sister,' and there were like 1000 people and these were a lot of street people and I just prayed to God that she was OK. Her sister was 2 years old, cute as a bug in a rug, and, we then looked for her, and, by the grace of God we found her sister and then got her on her rightful bus to get her back to her home. Praise God ! :) His hand is ALWAYS on us and there was a lot seen by me in the scenes of charlotte, NC .
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And, piperflyer, that sounds like it must not just be any part of Canada but B.C., a short hop's throw from me in western WA, and, it is gorgeous in Vancouver area, been there salmon fishing one time, in a beautiful lake just outside the main city not far at all. But, yeah, unless you are on prince edward island there can only be beaches there, or, are you in nova scotia, I suppose too. With that plane of yours in your avatar, I'm not taking any 100% guessses for sure.
Wait, can a guess be a 100% sure ? :D
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#30
Western Colorado (see how I did that, as though it's a state all on its own? Cuz it should be...and I don't know much about them folks over them there mountains nohow):

View attachment 58673
(This is how we do 'irony' out here in the boonies)

CONS
-Sage brush.
-Most towns are at least an hour apart, down boring stretches of highway.
-Deer, elk, and antelope like to hang out on those lonely roads and jump in front of you at 11:30 pm when you've been driving ALL. DAY. I think they like the sound of squealing tires, breaking glass, and crunching metal.
-The deer here are very uppity and judgy.
-We don't get a whole lot of "spring", usually. We go from winter to...not quite winter...to summer pretty fast.
-"Elk Hunting Capital of the World". 'Nuff said.
-Summer days are frequently 100+ degrees, while winter days are frequently -20 degrees. At least it's....variety...I guess.
-I have to drive 3 hours in any direction to be able to shop for decent clothes.
-Cottonwood trees.
-June Bugs
-Mormon crickets (watch out, they'll try to convert you)
-Boxelder bugs

-Oil rigs


PROS
-Lots of outdoor activities nearby; skiing, hiking, camping, rafting.
-Population spread out so nobody feels "crowded".
-Wide open spaces (ew, that's a Dixie Chicks song I think)
-Valleys
-Aspen trees
-Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory
-...drat, I'm out of good things to say about this place. In that case, here's a pretty picture...

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Lovin the uppity/judgy deer comment! Good times...Good times.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

Guest
#31
Tennessee

Pros -
It's bordered by more states than any other in the Union. It's like all the other states said "no - you can have that part" back and forth and left this long thin strip.

Diverse landscape from the mountains in the east to the Delta bottoms in the west

Trashvill - I mean Nashville - country music capital. Only now it's like a bunch of Holllywolf wannabee country singers bought cowboy hats in Donnelson's "City Switchers". It's a little like finding out Creedance Clearwater Revival were all from California. The musics great - just kind of a let down.

Cons

Of course, we're all related.

We're all Scot Irish. All of us have hard R's in our language. Nashville sounds like Nashvl. The ville just falls off altogether. Rrrrrrrrr matey.

We can flat grow something that kills millions of people - tobacco. Quite proud of that. Actually worked a farm that grew tobacco harvested for snuff and chewing. We snubbed the cigarette people and were better than they were.

You have to know how to handle explosives if you want a septic tank.

I'm still laffin' my buns off @ yer' "Cons" list. Awesomeness...pure awesomeness!
 
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GreenNnice

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How could I forget :)

Conch meat is my daddy's favorite food....I'm also a big fan.
You didn't really forget it though, you said you were in central Florida and 'conch' is a delicacy in Key West, hellooooo .
For the record, when I was in Key west a few years ago, I did not try the conch, as, when I was in Sitka, Alaska, I got the tiger prawns, BEST EVER, not sure if Hisloveneverfails said it, but SEAFOOD in Alaska is tops in my book because when I was 12 we went there for a week with my dad who was doing a logging job on an island just off that island city and one day we ate at a seafood restaurant and, yeah, the tiger prawns were hugest I ever seen before then and, even, after, and, there fresh taste was the bestest too, and, oh, about conch, my mom had the escargot, and, no joke I still can smell those conch, I mean, snails, in their drippy buttery, smelly sauce to this day ! :)
 

Oncefallen

Idiot in Chief
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#33
Western Colorado (see how I did that, as though it's a state all on its own? Cuz it should be...and I don't know much about them folks over them there mountains nohow):

View attachment 58673
(This is how we do 'irony' out here in the boonies)
I tend to agree that most of Colorado should secede and create their own state and leave the Denver metro area off by itself.

I've seen the "Welcome to Colorful Colorado" signs at both ends of I-70 and both ends of I-25 and the scenery at those locations is far from colorful. The signs should say "Welcome to our bland brown state" :p
 
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xXErraticEmilyXx

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#34
I am from central Texas.

Some of the pros of living in this beautiful state are
-A lot of country land. A beautiful are for ranching and farming. Agriculture is big.
-Nice cities. Not too heavily populated and easy to access from town to town.
-Small towns. Good mom and pop owned businesses.
-Great Mexican and Tex Mex food.
-Access to the coast. We have the beautiful Corpus Christi, Port Aransas, and South Padre Island. You don't have to travel out of state to board a cruise and you can enjoy life near the beach.
-Temperatures rarely reach below 30 degrees. Great if you can't take the cold.
-Lots of history such as The San Antonio Missions, which include The Alamo.
-Bill Miller BBQ. They have great ice tea and brisket.
-We have the first Wataburger, which is located in Corpus Christi, Texas.
-Los Spurs.
-Many land forms like The Rio Grande, Guadalupe, and Palo Duro Canyon.
-People are generally friendly.
-Space Center Houston.
-Real salsa/hot sauce.
-Fiesta in San Antonio. It's a citywide party that lasts a week.
-More affordable housing and a lower cost of living.

The cons
-It doesn't rain much here.
-The rivers, creeks, and lakes are often shallow or completely dry.
-It gets very hot from about May to October.
-It takes days to travel across state.
-Rattle snakes. Rattle snakes everywhere.
-San Antonio, Texas was once named the third fattest city in the world.
-Whenever it really does rain, it usually just drizzles for two minutes. No I am not exaggerating.
 
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KJV15John11

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#35
I tend to agree that most of Colorado should secede and create their own state and leave the Denver metro area off by itself.

I've seen the "Welcome to Colorful Colorado" signs at both ends of I-70 and both ends of I-25 and the scenery at those locations is far from colorful. The signs should say "Welcome to our bland brown state" :p
BROWN is a color you know.
 
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#36
Texas -

Pros:

We were once our own republic. How cool is that.
15th ranking economy in the world.
We have deserts, hills, farmlands and swamps.
We are diverse, with nearly equal parts hispanic, black and white populations mingling together successfully for the most part.
Two words - CHUCK NORRIS.

Cons:

High temperatures + high humidity = summertime misery.
Annual droughts.
Border states have immigration problems.
I'm not a big fan of western wear or country music.
 
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JessicaMae

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#37
I live in the state of Kansas.

Pros:
-President Eisenhower came from here
-If you like to fish or hunt there is lots of deer and birds in the hunting season
-Most of the wheat crops some from here

Cons:
-Voted as the ugliest state in America
-At least 90% Catholic
-Extremely humid
-Extreme temperature variations: really hot and really cold
-Country music and apparel is big here...

There are more cons but I don't wanna sound complainy.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

Guest
#38
I live in the state of Kansas.

Pros:
-President Eisenhower came from here
-If you like to fish or hunt there is lots of deer and birds in the hunting season
-Most of the wheat crops some from here

Cons:
-Voted as the ugliest state in America
-At least 90% Catholic
-Extremely humid
-Extreme temperature variations: really hot and really cold
-Country music and apparel is big here...

There are more cons but I don't wanna sound complainy.
LOL @ complainy JM...too funny. I have a friend that lives in Kansas (plz don't ask me what town,cause I totes forget) but she said the same thing too...she's surrounded by wheat fields & has to drive 45mins to get into town. She also said w/out her central air,she'd die. LOL
 
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KJV15John11

Guest
#39
I live in the state of Confusion.


PROS:
You get to meet new people all the time, for as many times as you come across them.
It's like Christmas every day because you find things that you never remember buying.
You never get sick of the decor in your home because it is always new to you.
Everything is exactly the way you remember it, regardless of what everybody else tells you.
If you're single, you remember having the best boyfriend/girlfriend in the world.
If you're married, you get to have sex with this person for the first time, every time.
It's relatively close to the state of Delusion.
You keep meeting new people on Christian Chat who just seem to know and understand you from the very beginning.


CONS:
It's too close to the state of Decay.
Not close enough to the state of Consciousness.
Can't easily find things I want.
Can't figure out who keeps coming into my home and taking things away and putting other things back that I don't want.
If you're single, trying to figure out when your spouse is supposed to come home and rub your bunions.
If you're married, realizing it was to this person who keeps yelling at you for leaving the toilet seat up, or so they say?
Every time you go to sign up on a new web site, someone else has already used your username, at your email address.
Every time you go onto Christian Chat, that same username thief has already posted your thoughts.
You never get to meet any other singles who live in your state. Many seem to live in the state of Delusion though.
 

Photoss

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This thread is quite interesting! For me, I live in San Diego, California.

Pros:
- Great geography! With about an hour or two of traval, I can go scuba diving, surfing, mountain climbing, and skiing all in the same day (if I ever wanted to, haha).
- The weather is always nice, it can get a bit hot in the Summer, and cool in the Winter, but there's never inclement weather that keeps you at home.
- The people who live here are generally nice, and lots of tourists keep life interesting; VERY multicultural.
- Countless armed forces members and their families, so it's a patriotic town.


Cons:
- The politics; the state calls what is evil, good, and what is good, evil.
- It rarely rains, and I love rain...
- The taxes! Such heavy taxes...
- The public schools are awful.
- It's so expensive to live here; terrible for new high school/college grads (like me), and 95% of the jobs added in the last year were part time and less than 20 hours a week.
- Gas is expensive (compared to much of the continental US); I drive approx 50 miles roundtrip each day to (minimum wage) work, and it's painful when gas is $4 a gallon ($5 in the city itself).
- A lot of illegals, many of whom don't work and instead rove around in the gangs.