Things married people have said to you, that are discouraging?

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amandabr

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'' Mariage is not easy, but very hard, you need to be very tolerant and do things that you don´t want''

Some people makes marriage looks like a pain !! Scaring...

I know it´s not easy, but come on, let´s have some hope :D
 
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nanabean

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amandabr said:
'' Mariage is not easy, but very hard, you need to be very tolerant and do things that you don´t want''

Some people makes marriage looks like a pain !! Scaring...

I know it´s not easy, but come on, let´s have some hope :D
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AMEN!!!!

I love my marriage....I love my hubby.....I love what we have created together. It is not things....it is connectedness, togetherness, being whole seperately because of being and sharing so much together, lifting each other instead of bringing the other down, working and playing and praying and dreaming as one, and yet being just yourself as well. Always knowing yourself and being yourself, is enough.
 
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amandabr

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nanabean said:
AMEN!!!!

I love my marriage....I love my hubby.....I love what we have created together. It is not things....it is connectedness, togetherness, being whole seperately because of being and sharing so much together, lifting each other instead of bringing the other down, working and playing and praying and dreaming as one, and yet being just yourself as well. Always knowing yourself and being yourself, is enough.
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Hey Nanabean, it´s so precious !!! Thanks God we can see marriages like yours, it´s inspiring :D And also help us keep waiting in God !
 
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See_KING_Truth

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Forgiven66 said:
So what things have married folks said that discourage you?
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"I never knew what happiness was until I got married! By then it was too late..."

"There are two times in a man's life when he doesn't understand a woman, before marriage and after marriage."
 
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Suzie2family

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See_KING_Truth said:
"I never knew what happiness was until I got married! By then it was too late..."

"There are two times in a man's life when he doesn't understand a woman, before marriage and after marriage."
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:(^^Now that is discouraging....
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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you want to know depressing? how about when everyone around you is talking about their children and all the time they've spent and enjoyed with their spouse as if you are one of them, all the while you are alone in a cramped apartment and haven't spent any time with the other gender in 9 years, after having had a 5 year relationship that was heading toward marriage.

I think the worst is hearing people talking about holding their children for the first time etc...

all stuff I may never experience, and really do want.
 
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