THINKING SOMEONE LIKES YOU WHEN THEY ACTUALLY DON'T

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Encouragement

Encouragement

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Kireina said:
That is Sad life 😀

For me Telling someone you have feelings for them is worth it even if they don't feel the same... Than let your feelings for them be buried... Rejection hurts but better than living in what ifs and regrets...
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Yes most definitely...also..nothing worst than finding out later that the other person kinda liked you at the time too but because you didn't do anything that person had emotional ly moved on and that chance has been lost..😫
 
inukubo

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theLastEndWatcher said:
Never hurts to ask. If you get rejected just write her off.
Personally I do not remain just friends with someone I have feelings for. If the feelings fade, fine.
Honest and up front is best. State your case.
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I've been without friends for so long, I'm totally fine just staying in the friend zone forever even if it never leads to anything more. I've become a lot more chill about "romance" as I've aged and realized that 9 times out of 10, a close friendship is a lot better that a shallow romance. So I'm fine with staying friends as long as she's okay with it.
 
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inukubo said:
I've been without friends for so long, I'm totally fine just staying in the friend zone forever even if it never leads to anything more. I've become a lot more chill about "romance" as I've aged and realized that 9 times out of 10, a close friendship is a lot better that a shallow romance. So I'm fine with staying friends as long as she's okay with it.
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interesting though because i know that some people are actually much better at being your friend than actually becoming your boyfriend/girlfriend cox the level of emotional intimacy a romantic relationship creates reveals thing about then that could actually be detrimental to your wellbeing.
Dunno if you hear people sometimes say..they aren't good at being a good boyfriend or girlfriend..

There is something unique and beautiful about a good friendship yet there is also something unique and beautiful about a relationship that began as just a good friendship too..not all relationships are shallow...many have tremendous depth and a richness that's amazing.

Yet a lovely friendship is also a gem to and worth retaining too
 
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