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The basic answer here is... we don't know. One compliment from a guy is too vague a circumstance to comment on his true intentions. We could comment on 'most guys' such as 'most guys wouldn't notice and/or comment on a woman changing her hair'. But there are some guys that do. 'Most guys don't pay out compliments to women randomly', but some guys do. You need more to go on than one thing, unless that one thing is really big and obvious, which this is not.
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As someone ho gets hit on a lot by coworkers I have come to find out that it always starts with an innocent little compliment like "HI beautiful". Then it progresses if you let it get that far. I stop them in their tracks by saying I'm celibate till marriage. No more comments.. LOL
It actually happened again today and this guy is not giving up that easy. Unless his heart belongs to Jesus first it's a deal breaker.
Plus do you really want to date someone you work with? It's just awkward.
It actually happened again today and this guy is not giving up that easy. Unless his heart belongs to Jesus first it's a deal breaker.
Plus do you really want to date someone you work with? It's just awkward.
I for one don't mind at all being called a lad, but everyone called me strange from the start anyways. 
Just to mellow your uh, slightly cynical, middle paragraph there, not all guys who behave that way are playing games. Sometimes it is wiser to wait to share your feelings and consult God. Sometimes it is better to not act on your feelings. In those times if you share them quickly, feelings are much more likely to be hurt. If I've learned anything in the relationships I've been in, love takes time. Time to recognize and time to grow.
Just to mellow your uh, slightly cynical, middle paragraph there, not all guys who behave that way are playing games. Sometimes it is wiser to wait to share your feelings and consult God. Sometimes it is better to not act on your feelings. In those times if you share them quickly, feelings are much more likely to be hurt. If I've learned anything in the relationships I've been in, love takes time. Time to recognize and time to grow.
NurseGirl26, I feel you. There's a guy I like at my Bible study group, and he liked three of my statuses on Facebook (you heard me right, folks, a whopping THREE!!) recently and my eyes just got wide. And he seems friendlier to me at Bible study too, but he's a friendly guy to begin with.
I have a problem of either reading into everything or being completely oblivious. *Sigh*
Anyway, try not to read too much into it, and just wait and see if anything else happens. Girls think guys are hard to read and guys think girls are hard to read. It's frustrating but kind of hilarious.
I have a problem of either reading into everything or being completely oblivious. *Sigh*
Anyway, try not to read too much into it, and just wait and see if anything else happens.
Girls think guys are hard to read and guys think girls are hard to read. It's frustrating but kind of hilarious.
Guess girls have it easy, they don't have to worry about coming on too strong.
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In the time I've known him, he seems like a genuinely nice guy. Granted, the majority of our interactions have been at work, but we have several mutual friends who all seem to share the same opinion of him...he's in the "good guy" category. That being said, I like what I know about him. So yeah, I guess you could say I'm interested. But I never really thought he'd be interested in me, that's why I asked...to see if it was just him being nice or if there might be some other reason behind it.