I am 32 years old and have never had girlfriend. I have tried to get together with another church girl and it ended up terrible with me hating her for rejecting me for whatever reasons. Over time I have learned that maybe she wasn't the girl for me and it's better off that I didn't get with her. As a 30 year old, I feel more happy not being in a relationship or looking for one. I dont care anymore and if I ever meet someone let it be. If I don't, it's alright no big problem.