Well, I don't know. It's one of those things that i know if i plan it, or daydream about it, it'll come together much differently in reality. I do have to say I enjoy a good challenge, and the Lord's never failed me there
. I guess it comes down to having a very best friend. Someone I can have those telepathic Pictionary moments with, where you draw a line and they say " Ulysses S. Grant", and I'd give them a high five(not a real one, hands are dirty), even if it's wrong. Someone who is different from me (how boring is same ole?) yet similar where it counts. In the end, someone I can sit in the same room with, yet feel comfortable enough not to have to constantly engage them in conversation. They can play their video games and read their books while i make my airplane noises and do my awesome karate moves without judgement...... until later when they want to give me a hard time. The toughest part has been trying to find someone who understands my more subtle humorisms. When someone gets them, that energizes me with such a victorious feeling. Maybe someone who's able to help me with my problem of holding shift too shallowly, so that I might reliably type capital I's.................. ah, to dream.
The Girl I can fully trust to share both the dark times, and the good with. That I can rely on as a peer in Christ, being taught as much as I teach. A trusted advisor that is honest and just. One that enables me to be head of the family that i might someday have. One that would hold me responsible to be the man I should be, and also rely on that responsibility they have in part given to me.
Also, it is preferable they don't have insane amounts of nose hair. That is all.