Unusual Favorites About The Opposite Gender

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Girls who snort when laughing is kind of attractive.lol I love it when they laugh so hard and try not to do it. It causes a perfect combination of happiness and embarrasment that makes me smile.
 
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Unusual cuts both ways. It could mean that my tastes are unusual, which they are. Men typically prefer women of substantially less intelligence. Women typically prefer men of equal intelligence. At least according to David Brooks.

I'll stay by my point as it seems most men prefer T&A. Then again so do most women it seems. People are barbaric.
 
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kayem77

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So Kayem, what will you be up to late November? :p

[Mostly in jest.]

Haha most likely I will be eating Thanksgiving leftovers :D sometimes I share....sometimes I don't.
 
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GRA

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( "Just remember -- you were the one to call it 'unusual' - not me..." :D )
I said this "in jest" -- so that - as it were - when the women started throwing things - they might be more inclined to throw them in your direction... :D

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kayem77

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I said this "in jest" -- so that - as it were - when the women started throwing things - they might be more inclined to throw them in your direction... :D

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not an excuse I SAW YOU! :)
 

Stuey

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I think my biggest oddity when it comes to women is being particularly fond of someone who is tomboyish enough to be able to go hiking/camping etc. but still fully a lady who can dress up and go out to a classy restaurant. It seems that most women are extreme tomboy or extreme prissy. The other is eyes. There is just something about a woman with beautiful eyes that melts me.

Outside of that I think most of my desires for a woman are typical for a mature christian man.
*pushes oncefallen and Julliana together. :D

At a guess.

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Girls who snort when laughing is kind of attractive.lol I love it when they laugh so hard and try not to do it. It causes a perfect combination of happiness and embarrasment that makes me smile.

ewww

Unusual cuts both ways. It could mean that my tastes are unusual, which they are. Men typically prefer women of substantially less intelligence. Women typically prefer men of equal intelligence. At least according to David Brooks.

I'll stay by my point as it seems most men prefer T&A. Then again so do most women it seems. People are barbaric.

Psh! I want a girl who can beat me senseless with mental wit! :D What is T&A?


And here is a love song for everyone.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8JA9Qs2Mho

I love the lyrics, cracks me up so much. hehehehehehe.
 

Phia

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Ahhh to throw my two cents in... Someone who doesn't bore me, has a good sense of humour, old school gentleman...
 
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Tandemtruths

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Well, I don't know. It's one of those things that i know if i plan it, or daydream about it, it'll come together much differently in reality. I do have to say I enjoy a good challenge, and the Lord's never failed me there :D . I guess it comes down to having a very best friend. Someone I can have those telepathic Pictionary moments with, where you draw a line and they say " Ulysses S. Grant", and I'd give them a high five(not a real one, hands are dirty), even if it's wrong. Someone who is different from me (how boring is same ole?) yet similar where it counts. In the end, someone I can sit in the same room with, yet feel comfortable enough not to have to constantly engage them in conversation. They can play their video games and read their books while i make my airplane noises and do my awesome karate moves without judgement...... until later when they want to give me a hard time. The toughest part has been trying to find someone who understands my more subtle humorisms. When someone gets them, that energizes me with such a victorious feeling. Maybe someone who's able to help me with my problem of holding shift too shallowly, so that I might reliably type capital I's.................. ah, to dream.

The Girl I can fully trust to share both the dark times, and the good with. That I can rely on as a peer in Christ, being taught as much as I teach. A trusted advisor that is honest and just. One that enables me to be head of the family that i might someday have. One that would hold me responsible to be the man I should be, and also rely on that responsibility they have in part given to me.





Also, it is preferable they don't have insane amounts of nose hair. That is all.
 
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Jilly81

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Haha, a bunch of these made me smile or laugh :). The only thing I'd like to add is that I like it when they say "um". You can tell a lot about a man by the way he says "umm" when he is speaking.
 

AsifinPassing

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Haha, a bunch of these made me smile or laugh :). The only thing I'd like to add is that I like it when they say "um". You can tell a lot about a man by the way he says "umm" when he is speaking.
:eek: She's onto us! ;) We'll have to have another man convention to change strategies! :p
 

JimJimmers

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I told you guys we never should have gotten away from grunts and shrieks. But alas, we never listen.
 
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Relena7

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Haha, a bunch of these made me smile or laugh :). The only thing I'd like to add is that I like it when they say "um". You can tell a lot about a man by the way he says "umm" when he is speaking.
lol I know what you mean. My BF says "erm" cause he's British. I think it's cute. :p
 

AsifinPassing

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Purity, actually, could be another one. For some reason, we always embody it as a woman (via art). I think most female seem to have a greater aptitude for purity than men. I'm not sure if this is the actual case, or I'd so, then why, but it's sort of frightening and attractive all at once.
 
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CC_Bride

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Facial hair and receding hairlines (maintained well!)

Yes my husband has both of these things for sure but I did like them previously to knowing him.

Facial hair is simple. I think in a Western world were men are forced to think that extreme metrosexualism is awesome is just plain gross to me. And some women seem to think that facial hair is like a dirty word or something and instead they like their men to look likle Robert Pattinson pretty boyish who look like theyve never held a razor in their life. Nah not for me. I like my man to look like a man, groomed appropriately but definitely more cave manish than most lol.

Second thing - receding hairline, I don't understand why some men are so deeply embarressed and ashamed to lose hair as they age. Thats like a woman acting shocked on discovering stretch marks after delivering a baby. No brainer its gonna happen, may as well go with it. I grew up with men with receding hairlines, particulalarly my granpa has had a receding hairline since he was 20 and hes always been a handsome man to me.
PLUS - Jason Statham? Bruce Willis? Ladies if you're in a life threatening crisis and you need a male, do you call Justin Beiber or Jason
Statham? Which one has a receding hairline?

Jason Statham all the way.. :D
 
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rhann

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okay, why not.

apart from the obvious [loves jesus, bathes regularily, has a pulse] here are some things [though not neccesities]:

-piercings
-artistic ability [musical, can coordinate an outfit, knows colour theory...stuff like that]
-taller than me [not too hard.]
-stronger than me [a little harder to do]
-loves babies/children
-serious when needs be, but easy going when not
-able to understand and accept my mental conditions [depression; anxiety]
-able to enjoy things with a childlike sense of fun [like flowers or sommersaults]

um, yeah.
 
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Powemm

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6 ft or taller. I'm 5'8
Between 43- 45. I'm 42
Knows God- can encourage each other In our relationship with Christ
Action based- we can walk things out together
Communicates- resolve issues
self controlled- trustworthy
Transparent - Honest
Laughs- doesn't take himself to seriously
Responsible - holds himself accountable
Integrity- Reliable
the interior always compliments the exterior