What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

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Lanolin

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people who assume you got heaps of money to spend when you dont.
You might have savings but you cant actually spend it.

They'd be like you can buy this $200 dress for yourself you got money, Um actually no I dont.
I dont get that people want you to spend your money when you just looking at stuff. I dont even tell other people what to buy even when I work in retail. I just let them look and dont assume they are loaded and can just buy anything they want.
 

T_Laurich

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A "modern woman" is a gigantic turn off, screams high maintenance and baggage.

A woman who is constantly on their phone, nothing is worse than going on a date like bowling, and they are on their phone 95% of the time.
Modern dates go as follows.

You show up to the place, they are all happy and gitty, they take selfies and force you to take selfies, acting like they are having the best time ever. Then the rest of the time is spent sending those pictures to everyone or trying to see if others are having "more fun" than they are.

And every time the date is over they say "I had such a fun time, this was a blast" and they text you wanting to know when the next date will be.
 
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people who assume you got heaps of money to spend when you dont.
You might have savings but you cant actually spend it.
LOL. I have been on the receiving end of this one before. Recall some time ago the receptionist at the dentist office implied she wanted to go out with me because (in her words) 'you must have a lot of money'.

Do not know what I did to convince her of that, but it is not exactly true...
 

Lanolin

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A "modern woman" is a gigantic turn off, screams high maintenance and baggage.

A woman who is constantly on their phone, nothing is worse than going on a date like bowling, and they are on their phone 95% of the time.
Modern dates go as follows.

You show up to the place, they are all happy and gitty, they take selfies and force you to take selfies, acting like they are having the best time ever. Then the rest of the time is spent sending those pictures to everyone or trying to see if others are having "more fun" than they are.

And every time the date is over they say "I had such a fun time, this was a blast" and they text you wanting to know when the next date will be.
modern guys do that too.
I dont want a guy taking heaps of pics of me in a date. Then putting it on social media. ugh. its like look at me and who I'm with, and then you see they do that to everyone.
 

CedarRose

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Narcissistic
Excessive: swearing, laziness, gaming and drinking
Weak in character meaning unassertive (doesn't stand up for himself, wife and children)
Workaholic
 

Camess

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Big turnoff: guys who think because you're single means you want a boyfriend, and thus, should be interested in them.
 

Lanolin

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anyone who calls after 9pm. After 10pm I turn my phone off.
dont do it man. A woman needs her beauty sleep and doesnt want to be called and txted at that hour even if its to say 'good night dear'.
 

phil36

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Biggest turn off?

Mmm someone eating with their mouth open :sick::eek:
 

Encouragement

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lol exactly gross :cool:
yes even worst if they start laughing out loudly with their mouths opened even wider while staring at you with the food swirling round inside their mouth like a cement mixer.Gosh I'm making myself feel nauseated..lol..🤪🤮
I think I better stop now...🤣🤣
 

phil36

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yes even worst if they start laughing out loudly with their mouths opened even wider while staring at you with the food swirling round inside their mouth like a cement mixer.Gosh I'm making myself feel nauseated..lol..🤪🤮
Now i'm feeling ill thinking about it lol. Thankfully not many do it :ROFL:
 

Encouragement

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Now i'm feeling ill thinking about it lol. Thankfully not many do it :ROFL:
Oh dear..Pls think of cute kittens in a basket..that will mak you feel better..phew..👍🏻😊
Oops may my comment should have a health warning across it saying "this may cause feelings of nausea..discretion advised"..😊😊

Yes you're right...its not something one sees very often..😏
 

phil36

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Thankfully I haven't seen it in a long time. Kittens in a basket are a better thought indeed :)
 

Encouragement

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Thankfully I haven't seen it in a long time. Kittens in a basket are a better thought indeed :)
Oh yes most definitely..and makes your mind be in complete calm as opposed to your mind being tormented by images of food swirling around inside an open laughing mouth..🤪🤪
 

Going_Nowhere

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yes even worst if they start laughing out loudly with their mouths opened even wider while staring at you with the food swirling round inside their mouth like a cement mixer.Gosh I'm making myself feel nauseated..lol..🤪🤮
I think I better stop now...🤣🤣