Someone who always wants to find the easy way out... without having to make an effort/put in the hard work
Irresponsible, who doesn't want to work, lazy
Uncommunicative or overly talkative
Rigid, controlling... "My way or the highway", "I know better because X, Y, Z..."
Unhappy / depressed / complaining / unforgiving...
Indecisive, lacking initiative (I'm indecisive enough for the both of us ._.)
Immaturity of all kind
And most of all: someone who isn't close to the Spirit of the Lord, someone who doesn't know God's heart and nature...
There are many believers who believe in Jesus and who love Him but they don't truly know Him... they don't walk in the Spirit but in their own understanding (not saying that -I- know Him perfectly, but I do know some of Him, I believe).
Directly related to the point above: someone who doesn't bear the fruit of the Spirit... who lacks patience, love, kindness, faithfulness, peace and joy. Who lacks faith and hope. Lukewarm spiritually.
And finally, someone who has a "holier than thou" attitude... who condemns by the letter instead of giving life by the Spirit... Spiritual arrogance (and arrogance in general) is a huge turn-off.
(Looking at that list, I feel like I myself have some work to do, haha.)
May the Lord help us to know Him more so we can become more like Him & be like the people we want to be with.
Irresponsible, who doesn't want to work, lazy
Uncommunicative or overly talkative
Rigid, controlling... "My way or the highway", "I know better because X, Y, Z..."
Unhappy / depressed / complaining / unforgiving...
Indecisive, lacking initiative (I'm indecisive enough for the both of us ._.)
Immaturity of all kind
And most of all: someone who isn't close to the Spirit of the Lord, someone who doesn't know God's heart and nature...
There are many believers who believe in Jesus and who love Him but they don't truly know Him... they don't walk in the Spirit but in their own understanding (not saying that -I- know Him perfectly, but I do know some of Him, I believe).
Directly related to the point above: someone who doesn't bear the fruit of the Spirit... who lacks patience, love, kindness, faithfulness, peace and joy. Who lacks faith and hope. Lukewarm spiritually.
And finally, someone who has a "holier than thou" attitude... who condemns by the letter instead of giving life by the Spirit... Spiritual arrogance (and arrogance in general) is a huge turn-off.
(Looking at that list, I feel like I myself have some work to do, haha.)
May the Lord help us to know Him more so we can become more like Him & be like the people we want to be with.
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