What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

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Butterflyyy

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Oct 31, 2019
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Winks at sin, compromiser, not passionate about holiness
Negative, complainers, fault finders
Poor communication skills
Poor listening skills
Disagrees with me
Criticizes me
Anger, Tempers, display of irritation, cold shoulders, any kind of public scene behavior.
Scolding or correcting wait staff, store employees, etc.. (Karens)
Loud Voice
Nasal Voice
Believes in Conspiracy theories
Tattoos, nose rings or piercings
Yoga pants
Not being able or unwilling to cook TexMex
”Karen” is a racist, sexist term designed to silence white women who speak up for what is right.
 

Butterflyyy

Well-known member
Oct 31, 2019
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Winks at sin, compromiser, not passionate about holiness
Negative, complainers, fault finders
Poor communication skills
Poor listening skills
Disagrees with me
Criticizes me
Anger, Tempers, display of irritation, cold shoulders, any kind of public scene behavior.
Scolding or correcting wait staff, store employees, etc.. (Karens)
Loud Voice
Nasal Voice
Believes in Conspiracy theories
Tattoos, nose rings or piercings
Yoga pants
Not being able or unwilling to cook TexMex
”Conspiracy theories” is also a term invented as a means to silence those who question...
 

Butterflyyy

Well-known member
Oct 31, 2019
1,615
1,318
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Winks at sin, compromiser, not passionate about holiness
Negative, complainers, fault finders
Poor communication skills
Poor listening skills
Disagrees with me
Criticizes me
Anger, Tempers, display of irritation, cold shoulders, any kind of public scene behavior.
Scolding or correcting wait staff, store employees, etc.. (Karens)
Loud Voice
Nasal Voice
Believes in Conspiracy theories
Tattoos, nose rings or piercings
Yoga pants
Not being able or unwilling to cook TexMex
Disagrees with you? Wow...lol
 

spunkycat08

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I refuse to use the term 'Karen'.
It is not acceptable.
Here is the definition of a social justice warrior...

In the broadest sense, a social justice warrior is a person that uses complex serious social, economic and political issues as a way to further their own agenda by claiming they are fighting to "correct a wrong"

Specifically, it is used to refer to people claim to be fighting for social justice but are actually validating their own ego, looking for special treatment, or attention.
 

Butterflyyy

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Oct 31, 2019
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Here is the definition of a social justice warrior...

In the broadest sense, a social justice warrior is a person that uses complex serious social, economic and political issues as a way to further their own agenda by claiming they are fighting to "correct a wrong"

Specifically, it is used to refer to people claim to be fighting for social justice but are actually validating their own ego, looking for special treatment, or attention.
Well God knows the heart😉
 
S

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Guest
”Karen” is a racist, sexist term designed to silence white women who speak up for what is right.
I actually agree with you, it is racist. I should have said people who are loud and make scenes in public that make everyone uncomfortable to get their way. Trying to get something for free, or a discount, or whatever it is they want. Or those who follow the motto "The squeaky wheel get's the grease" which is not always true as just as often the squeaky wheels get replaced.
 
S

Scribe

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Whew!! Glad you’re not my Pastor😅
Everything I posted in this thread was intended for humor and lightness. However, as most of my attempts at lightness it usually does not pan out. I apologize for getting in the flesh and saying things I should not have said and things that might be hurtful or provoking or not loving. I promise to do better in the future. I knew better than to join this thread but I yielded to my carnal nature.

The truth is nothing turns me off because nothing turns me on. I am very happy being alone and my mind no longer considers things like turn ons and turn offs. I don't even belong in this particular forum as I have no real interests in ever changing my status and no real interest in most of the topics. So I will once again back away and quietly close the door behind me, and try to resist the impulse to join in these particular types of threads. :love:
 

J-T

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Heaven Bound
”Conspiracy theories” is also a term invented as a means to silence those who question...
Thank you for pointing that out. I fully concur with your statement.

I am a born again Christian, and I have an extensive knowledge base into many of the evils that have been propagated into society, along with who is doing it and why, and at no time have I considered myself to be a "Conspiracy Theorist", which is a slur and a slander against Christians, and it is also used to shame Christians, and/or shame anyone from testing or questioning things. There are very conspiracies that need to be investigated by Christians, and with stating that, there is nothing wrong with starting with a theory to then later make a determination of the facts. That is what Detectives and other Investigators do.

"Conspiracy theory" is a term coined by the CIA in 1967 to dismiss critical thinkers, and to be more specific, it was introduced by the CIA to dismiss Americans questioning the JFK assassination.

There is a lot of hypocrisy as it is become apparent that Christians are become the target of being labeled "conspiracy theorists" for questioning anything the Government, Hollywood, or anyone else does, but at the same time, there is "Darwin's Theory of Evolution", which replaced God, Prayer, and The Holy Bible when they were kicked out of Public Schools in the early 1960's, and there are scores of people that publicly propagate a wide assortment of jocus pocus "Scientific Theories" from fables such as Time Travel, the Multi-Verse, and on and on.
 
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Narcissim, Aspirational thinking, over talking