What are your relationship dealbreakers?
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That's a pretty broad paintbrush there.
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But let's assume all that was true...
If I love her, will I care if she doesn't value my MBA? If she loved me for my education, she wouldn't really love ME anyway.
Also it was hilarious that an article criticizing women with tattoos, specifically in their education and how they value education, would use "formerly educated" instead of "formally educated."
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But let's assume all that was true...
If I love her, will I care if she doesn't value my MBA? If she loved me for my education, she wouldn't really love ME anyway.
Also it was hilarious that an article criticizing women with tattoos, specifically in their education and how they value education, would use "formerly educated" instead of "formally educated."
Great catch on the wrong word choice formerly/formally! I didn't even consciously notice. Something seemed wrong, but I didn't know what it was.
I'm not even gonna touch the touchie subject of "if she values your degree" issue. lol
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Bad temperament/narcissist personality traits and also pessimism would be major dealbreakers. I would definitely have to see him in (or go through) various situations to see what makes him tick. People lose their inhibitions when they are tipsy/drunk so I'd have to see him that way too, and see him go through disappointment, lose his wallet, etc.
Prenups seem to be based on a lack of trust which is a basic foundation block in a relationship. This is especially true in financial matters. In marriage, there really isn't any 'his', or her' but rather 'ours'. To me, a red flag would be the insistence that a prenuptial agreement is signed before any marriage can take place.
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Because for me, it's not a lifestyle choice I would want or make.
It's not about "being popular with the ladies ". It's about sharing your life with another. Providing and giving of yourself to another.
I'm not a wealthy man....and women are expensive.
I'm also not up for being henpecked. Kody Brown was extremely hen pecked. (He doesn't have the many wives anymore)
It's not about "being popular with the ladies ". It's about sharing your life with another. Providing and giving of yourself to another.
I'm not a wealthy man....and women are expensive.
I'm also not up for being henpecked. Kody Brown was extremely hen pecked. (He doesn't have the many wives anymore)
well quick search shows he's some sort of tv personality on a 'reality' show called sister wives. Is he like a Mormon or something. You just want ONE wife to peck you right?
Is there a tv show called Brother Husbands. That would be interesting.
The only wife show I ever watched was one called Desperate Housewives. It was about this housewife who killed herself on Wisteria Lane and the other housewives were trying to figure out why she committed suicide, if I recall rightly. One housewife couldnt stop having children though she tried all sorts of things, and another was divorced, and the other was OCD about cleaning her house.
It was filmed while the husbands were away from the house at Work.
Is there a tv show called Brother Husbands. That would be interesting.
The only wife show I ever watched was one called Desperate Housewives. It was about this housewife who killed herself on Wisteria Lane and the other housewives were trying to figure out why she committed suicide, if I recall rightly. One housewife couldnt stop having children though she tried all sorts of things, and another was divorced, and the other was OCD about cleaning her house.
It was filmed while the husbands were away from the house at Work.
I thought it would show things like the housewives washing dishes, folding clothes, vaccumming, or dusting and tidying up, or shopping for groceries but it wasnt like that. Also the housewives seemed dressed up to go out though they never went out, and looked a bit too thin as if they were malnourished.
It was mostly about how the housewives got together to gossip about their husbands.
It was mostly about how the housewives got together to gossip about their husbands.
It's not always about money....
It the giving of myself to more than one that is extremely expensive....and I am not available to deal with more than one at a time. I've found a wonderful wife....it's all I need. Just one good one is plenty.
I'm not cut out for more than one woman to emotionally invest in.
It the giving of myself to more than one that is extremely expensive....and I am not available to deal with more than one at a time. I've found a wonderful wife....it's all I need. Just one good one is plenty.
I'm not cut out for more than one woman to emotionally invest in.
For me it would be the norm like no drugs,booze, cigarettes.....the standard stuff.
But ...... Arm pit hair. If a women has armpit hair that matches mine.....nope I'm all set 🤢. I've heard some women change the colors on it😂. Hear me out though. If its like survival time and we don't really have options and stuff then fine I get it.... But if you're growing it out to go join a Chewbacca club , then im good lol. Trying to stay warm for the winter 🤢 ....I'm sorry lol
But ...... Arm pit hair. If a women has armpit hair that matches mine.....nope I'm all set 🤢. I've heard some women change the colors on it😂. Hear me out though. If its like survival time and we don't really have options and stuff then fine I get it.... But if you're growing it out to go join a Chewbacca club , then im good lol. Trying to stay warm for the winter 🤢 ....I'm sorry lol
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