Hello again soulserch.. Here i am again being fair and even and providing you with a comment.. Now lets see if you foreknew what i was going to post?
When a Man is looking to find the Mother of his future children .. Two things rate above all other things..
Fertility:: If a man who wants to be a dad looks at a woman and he assesses her to be fertile then she has passed the Big first test and in reality this test a woman who passes it does not have to put any effort into it.. She is either fertile in the mans opinion or she has questionable fertility in the mans opinion or she is infertile in the mans opinion.. If a man is focused on becoming a dad and having kids the infertile woman will not factor into His calculations no matter how glowing her character is or her intellect or her wealth or any other factor she may rate highly in.. Now this leads into the belief that men are visual.. And Yes they are visual when it comes to selecting a Mother for their children.. Now the following is an extremely important point that woman need to take onboard and understand::
All the physical factors that make a woman physically desirable to a man are the exact same factors that indicate to a man that a woman is fertile
....... Now let that sink into your brains ladies....
So we see that most woman have high fertility when? 18 - 30 years old.. If they have kept themselves in good condition and have been mindful about healthy eating and exercise they can push that age out to 35 but then they enter into the zone of Questionable fertility:: maybe 33 to 42? When they are into their Mid 40's then in most cases they have entered the infirtile zone..
So with this in mind what woman would be more attractive to a man as a prospect as the future mother of his Children ? An 18 year old or a woman in her mid 30's ? A young fertile woman of 18 has over a decade of high fertility to offer a man and then another 10 years of questionable fertility so she has probably over 20 years of good chances to offer a man success in having children.. So not only does a younger woman have high fertility she also has years of fertility in her bank, making her of extremely high value to a man who desires to have kids..
Of course if a man is only looking for someone to share the rest of his life with and is not interested in having kids then the fertility factor can get thrown out of the calculations..
Character:: Does the woman have a supportive, positive, encouraging and loving personality. Is she good with kids.. Does she express her desire to be a mother, to have kids.. Or is she toxic.. If a man is looking for a mother for his Children he will want a woman of good character..
Now apart from the two Big factors above there are other things that factor into a mans calculations.. Now the next factor is no where near as important as the first two but it does seem to be one that most men i have discussed this have rated as important..
Many woman believe that men cannot handle a woman being intelligent.. But i can make the following statement with a high degree of confidence..
Most men do not want a ditzy woman as the Mother of their children.. A woman who has some smarts about her will be far more desirable then a woman who is lacking in mental ability.. Having a smart woman as a life partner is a blessing to any man and to his children..
So there you have it soulsearch the 2 biggies and the distant third placer.. For men who want to have a family with kids..
As i said in my post if a man does not want kids then things can be totally different and you can throw out fertility.. Character / personality can then become no 1 in their list of importance..