What Do Men REALLY Mean When They Say, "God Made Men Visual"?

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What Are Men REALLY Saying When They Say, "God Made Men Visual?"

  • Men have a God-given right to a physically beautiful wife.

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  • Men have a God-given right to trade in a no-longer beautiful wife for one he thinks IS beautiful.

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  • Men have a God-given right to have wives who are much better-looking than they are.

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  • It's no big deal that when a guy looks at or is addicted to porn. After all, God made men visual!

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  • Men's sexual needs are more imporant than the sexual needs of their wives.

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  • Men's sexual needs are more important than the emotional needs of their wives.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Men's sexual needs are greater than women's and so men should be allowed more freedoms.

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  • Men need more grace and understanding with sexuality than women.

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • Men and women have equal needs that require equal amounts of respece and fulfillment.

    Votes: 4 44.4%
  • Hold your wild horses! I have my own answer, which I'm going to post:

    Votes: 6 66.7%

  • Total voters
    9

gracenjoy

New member
Mar 30, 2019
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from my experience where the looking/lusting thing was a factor i really found out that I should have asked more questions of potential husband/partner. In marriage or when two people have decided to date exclusively i would hope honoring vows and self control would rule the day. if not perhaps honesty and transparency may have a place. the men in my life always hid it from me. So the lying, shame and betrayal were really what destroyed the relationships. In getting with the Lord on the matter I saw where I could have spiced it up to maybe keep my mans eyes on me and only me, I had to look at my own attitude, insecurities, sense of value and what breaks deals for me. but really it had only a portion to do with me. it takes two to make or break a relationship and looking, lusting, porn has got to be a topic of discussion in any serious relationship because it is relevant and if it stays hidden your probably headed for heartbreak.
 

Princesse

Active member
Feb 16, 2020
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From my experience, it’s a polite way of acknowledging their appreciation for physical beauty. Whereas women are thought to place less emphasis on appearance.