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Mitspa said:
No its not...this thread was not silly until you and your buddy made it that way
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Not the thread, I was referring to the question's entire premise as being silly.

As several have pointed out - women are all different. Heck, even as individuals, we change our minds ALL THE TIME.

Is it more important to get your question answered, or that I not post in this particular thread? I'm curious. Do you find that men are better able to define what all women want when that universal list does not exist?
 
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I don't think your intentions come from any ill place, so hopefully you aren't interpreting my questioning as being an attack on you, but your original question just has no concise answer.
 
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Olerica said:
This is a question, and not an attack: Where were you attacked for being men? Who brought up feminism?

You say you want to understand what women want, and when men try to tell you what they think we want (and look at all those posts with likes from women), you say that feminism is the cause of their thought process?

May I ask what it is you think women SHOULD want? What is the answer you were hoping to get from your fellow men?

TRULY, this is not an attack, I am really trying to understand.
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Those likes where because those guys was reading right out of the book you guys wrote.
 
DuchessAimee

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Mitspa said:
should we continue in sin?
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Are you going to make me quote Paul? If you want to go toe to toe on doctrine, we can. I'm not a typical Christian who doesn't know what they're talking about. So drop it. You're not going to trap me. If you want this type of discussion, then I suggest you go to the Hellmouth that is also known as the Bible Discussion Forum.
 
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Mitspa

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Hellooo said:
Not the thread, I was referring to the question's entire premise as being silly.

As several have pointed out - women are all different. Heck, even as individuals, we change our minds ALL THE TIME.

Is it more important to get your question answered, or that I not post in this particular thread? I'm curious. Do you find that men are better able to define what all women want when that universal list does not exist?
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Not its not silly..its a question that men ask each other all the time....its a question that I have ask myself ...many times.
 
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Mitspa

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DuchessAimee said:
Are you going to make me quote Paul? If you want to go toe to toe on doctrine, we can. I'm not a typical Christian who doesn't know what they're talking about. So drop it. You're not going to trap me. If you want this type of discussion, then I suggest you go to the Hellmouth that is also known as the Bible Discussion Forum.
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If any man (or woman) thinks they know anything? Let them admit they know nothing yet as they should know. :)
 
DuchessAimee

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Mitspa said:
I think I was hoping for a conversation where men where not attacked for being men..and see if they could come to their own understanding without being told what they should think.
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And instead, you told got men telling you that you should ask WOMEN what they wanted/thought/needed. Do you know why? Because men are WONDERFULLY logical. It's something I love about them. Men tend to be logic driven, and that makes me happy. You received great incite from other men. You got exactly what you wanted. However, you're turning it around to, once again, stir the pot.


You're trolling, not hardcore, but you're trolling.
 
JesusLives

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Mitspa said:
Dude...not all of us have this idea that women are a higher life form than men... Please remember this is a thread for men :)
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Does this mean it is a man's club only?

Blond just wondering?

Not not that you want to know since I'm a woman.....but I wanted someone who would love me for me the way I am right now with no game playing and I got what I wanted.....Took 35 years to find him.... But tourist loves me for who I am right now just the way I am right now and I am not a Barbie doll.... I am a real woman that was way over playing games....

Carry on....but before I go Cookie?

 
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DuchessAimee said:
And instead, you told got men telling you that you should ask WOMEN what they wanted/thought/needed. Do you know why? Because men are WONDERFULLY logical. It's something I love about them. Men tend to be logic driven, and that makes me happy. You received great incite from other men. You got exactly what you wanted. However, you're turning it around to, once again, stir the pot.


You're trolling, not hardcore, but you're trolling.
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Look I been on this forum a long time...im not a troll...but im not afraid either.

As far as those guys opinion...thats great and im sure they mean every word and some was very helpful :)
 
DuchessAimee

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Mitspa said:
Look I been on this forum a long time...im not a troll...but im not afraid either.

As far as those guys opinion...thats great and im sure they mean every word and some was very helpful :)
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You can troll a thread or situation, and yet not be a constant troll of every thread or situation.

You reading into people's statements seems to be a habit for you. If I were you, I'd make it a habit to ask questions before assuming you know everything. It's helpful.
 
chickwithsticks

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JesusLives said:
Does this mean it is a man's club only?

Blond just wondering?

Not not that you want to know since I'm a woman.....but I wanted someone who would love me for me the way I am right now with no game playing and I got what I wanted.....Took 35 years to find him.... But tourist loves me for who I am right now just the way I am right now and I am not a Barbie doll.... I am a real woman that was way over playing games....

Carry on....but before I go Cookie?
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Men : Ignore this post ..nothing to see here...Jesus Lives: can I get that cookie recipe ...they look fantastic!!
 
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DuchessAimee said:
You can troll a thread or situation, and yet not be a constant troll of every thread or situation.

You reading into people's statements seems to be a habit for you. If I were you, I'd make it a habit to ask questions before assuming you know everything. It's helpful.
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Look almost every thread on this forum is made to get some kind of reaction...that don't mean its trolling and thanks for telling me how I should think and act...I will have a wife for that one day...but im glad your here to help me out of my maleness :)
 
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Mitspa said:
Look I been on this forum a long time...im not a troll...but im not afraid either.

As far as those guys opinion...thats great and im sure they mean every word and some was very helpful :)
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Afraid? Why would you use that word? Do you feel as if someone is trying to scare you? Im not being snarky. Im just trying to understand...
 
Olerica

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Mitspa said:
Look almost every thread on this forum is made to get some kind of reaction...that don't mean its trolling and thanks for telling me how I should think and act...I will have a wife for that one day...but im glad your here to help me out of my maleness :)
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May I ask what it is that you are looking for in a woman? I mean, what qualities does she have? What is your ideal? Truly I'm curious... because it seems that a woman with an opinion threatens you and you call having an opinion 'feminism'... or do I have the wrong?
 
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Mitspa

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blondieindahouse said:
Afraid? Why would you use that word? Do you feel as if someone is trying to scare you? Im not being snarky. Im just trying to understand...
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You can do a lot of things of this forum..blaspheme the Lord..preach a false gospel etc...and folks are cool for the most part...but if you dare to be male..you better be ready to be attacked. Now Im a big boy and I know my heart is right and my intentions have no malice...so I say im not afraid to bring up issues like this.
 
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Mitspa

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Olerica said:
May I ask what it is that you are looking for in a woman? I mean, what qualities does she have? What is your ideal? Truly I'm curious... because it seems that a woman with an opinion threatens you and you call having an opinion 'feminism'... or do I have the wrong?
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your right.. a traditional feminist is not very attractive to me. but I do like a woman that can go her own way and is happy with herself and draws he peace from the Lord..not the world
 
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