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your right.. a traditional feminist is not very attractive to me. but I do like a woman that can go her own way and is happy with herself and draws he peace from the Lord..not the world
Can you define "feminism" for me from your viewpoint? Because I think my definition and your definition differ.
 
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This is the reason...I wanted a thread where guys had liberty to express themselves and not have every single word challenged by the thought police.
 
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Can you define "feminism" for me from your viewpoint? Because I think my definition and your definition differ.
Im not sure how to define it other than the western idea of feminism that seems to replace the proper and biblical place God gave to men.
 

Lynx

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Those likes where because those guys was reading right out of the book you guys wrote.
I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.

Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.

You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.

(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.) :D

And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
 
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Mitspa, I'm not challenging your every thought nor am I the thought police. I really and truly want to understand your perspective. I do not understand. So I am asking questions of the ONE PERSON who can answer what's going on in your head: YOU.
 

Lynx

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You can do a lot of things of this forum..blaspheme the Lord..preach a false gospel etc...and folks are cool for the most part...but if you dare to be male..you better be ready to be attacked. Now Im a big boy and I know my heart is right and my intentions have no malice...so I say im not afraid to bring up issues like this.
You and AgeofKnowledge really need to get together. I get the feeling you'd agree with each other on a lot of stuff.
 

JesusLives

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I once heard someone say, "Just when you think you have a woman figured out, the season's already changing." :eek:

I personally believe that a woman wants to feel loved and cherished by her man. ;)
Good Job......a winning answer.
 
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I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.

Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.

You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.

(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.) :D

And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?
Look lynx a conversation among the guys was not going to hurt anyone and could have be helpful and a little fun...but folks are just too uptight and don't seem to be able to take things the way they are intended.
 
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Im not sure how to define it other than the western idea of feminism that seems to replace the proper and biblical place God gave to men.
I really want to understand, specifically what your objections are... or where you think *I* am coming from. It seems you are painting a lot of women with a very broad 'feminist' brush, and I want to understand your view so I might object (or agree) from my point of view.

I am seeking to understand and to be understood.
 

DuchessAimee

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Look almost every thread on this forum is made to get some kind of reaction...that don't mean its trolling and thanks for telling me how I should think and act...I will have a wife for that one day...but im glad your here to help me out of my maleness :)

 
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You and AgeofKnowledge really need to get together. I get the feeling you'd agree with each other on a lot of stuff.
Age is pretty smart... not sure I have heard him talk much on this issue...I guess because he is too smart :)
 

JesusLives

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Men : Ignore this post ..nothing to see here...Jesus Lives: can I get that cookie recipe ...they look fantastic!!
Sorry called cut and paste off of the internet.....under decorated cookies but maybe if you go there and click on that picture might give you a recipe or where to get it...... Sorry guys carry on....
 

DuchessAimee

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I came back from work just now and found 17 likes. Show me the post I made that was right out of their book.

Speaking of which, though you banned ladies from commenting (which I still say kinda defeats the whole point...) they seem to be making their views known with the like button.

You know this thread seems to be going round and round. Kinda like the stereotypical guy that won't ask directions and just keeps driving. Maybe we need a woman to show up and provide a map.

(Okay that last comment about asking directions might have been out of their book. But this post doesn't have any likes yet because I'm still typing it so it doesn't count.) :D

And by the way, why are you asking guys this anyway? Show me one guy who really knows what HE wants. Men and women too, almost all people are really bad judges of themselves and their own wants and needs. And you expect men to understand women too, when most people are so bad at even understanding themselves?

 
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I really want to understand, specifically what your objections are... or where you think *I* am coming from. It seems you are painting a lot of women with a very broad 'feminist' brush, and I want to understand your view so I might object (or agree) from my point of view.

I am seeking to understand and to be understood.
My objectives was to just have a fun discussion and see what guys would say if they was given a chance to talk with the guys...you do know that guys talk different about women..when they are just with other guys?

I thought it would be entertaining and could actually help guys learn from other guys.
 

Lynx

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Age is pretty smart... not sure I have heard him talk much on this issue...I guess because he is too smart :)
*jaw drop

You must have missed it. He talks a LOT about this topic. He has run several pages up in some threads about it.
 

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Sorry called cut and paste off of the internet.....under decorated cookies but maybe if you go there and click on that picture might give you a recipe or where to get it...... Sorry guys carry on....
Carry on my wayward son
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more no!
 
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*jaw drop

You must have missed it. He talks a LOT about this topic. He has run several pages up in some threads about it.
Maybe he is not as smart as I thought? :)
 

PopClick

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Look lynx a conversation among the guys was not going to hurt anyone and could have be helpful and a little fun...but folks are just too uptight and don't seem to be able to take things the way they are intended.
Mitspa. :) I am smiling as I'm typing this because I am thinking of that time when you told your girlfriend to put on some makeup so that she could meet your coworkers, and how you were confused when she was hurt. I see more of that same situation in your posts and threads, how you say things and then when ladies get upset, you don't think they have any reason to be upset and say that they are "too uptight", when it's just an issue of you not seeing things through their eyes, or why they might be hurt at something that you said.

I hope you can see this post as coming from someone who respects you as a person, and I hope you respect me enough to consider what I have to say here. I am not upset, or angry, and I am certainly not offended by the fact that you are male. But I can clearly see why ladies get offended by some of your words, and it has nothing to do with feminism. ;)

I know you said that, in the makeup scenario, God needed to explain to you why your girlfriend was offended. I would like to suggest (in love) that you ask Him to do that for you again, in regards to your threads and posts and the way you have been received on cc by the women. I really do not think that the problem is what you think it is.