What Makes A Persons Dateable/Non Dateable???
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Ok, i was reading from this thread for sometime now. I think it's time i join the madness? XD
Hmm...
A guy is dateable for me when he:
1) Has a sense of humor. Not the cheesy kind, though. The kind that can really catch me off guard, can give me a laughing fit XD and, can lift my spirits up instantly when i'm down or upset. Major plus! (marriage material)
2) Loves music. Without question. He doesn't have to be a good singer, but he should at least have good taste in music. It'd be awesome if he can play instruments. I'll take care of the singing (i'll sing for us, or i'll teach him). But if he can sing with me...wow
3) Loves to dance. He doesn't have to be a hip hop master, or a dance floor god. But he has to have rhythm. I frequently "dance" while sitting down (usually when i'm on the passenger seat XD), so it'd be awesome if he can bounce along with me of course, if he can take the moves to the dance floor, my heart might just stop
4) Is like a child. Childlike, not childish. Curious about the world and its wonders. Can have simple joys from looking at nature, or playing video games, or listening to music, or eating an awesome dish or ice cream flavor. Has a certain innocence that remains untainted by this sick, sad world. Someone who'll be wide eyed and silently say "Wow..." with me when we see something amazing together like, the highest rollercoaster, Master Chief or Samus Aran in the flesh, and so on
5) Has an awesome imagination. Doesn't get bored easily. Asks me "what ifs" that get us both laughing and wondering. Won't mind my crazy "what ifs" as well XD Would gladly clash imaginary swords, power blasts, and super attacks with me (hmmm...connected to number 4, i realize now XD)
6) Loves food. Not afraid of spices and vegetables XD Would be awesome if he cooks. Would love it if he makes his own recipes, like i do
7) Is adventurous. Loves excitement, exploration, and trying new things. Rollercoaster crazy like me. Would love to take the road less traveled, wandering around, and not afraid to get lost with me
8) Challenges me. Someone who makes me think. Someone who inspires me to up my game, and brings the best out of me. And vice versa
9) Is Spirit-filled. Bursting with the fruits of the Spirit (charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, chastity). Consumed with HIS Holy Fire. Just WOW
10) Takes care of his body. Works out. Bathes and brushes everyday. Eats healthy
11) Is smart. Doesn't have to be a genius. If he's witty, can hold a sensible conversation with me, and enjoys learning new things, i'm sold if he opens up a new world to me, though...i'd swoon
12) Gorgeous eyes and smile. i DO love to stare, after all.
13) Desires GOD. Wants to be with GOD, to feel HIS presence, to know HIM and be deep in love with HIM.
A guy is undateable when he:
1) Doesn't know GOD, and has no desire to know GOD.
2) Is married, or currently in a relationship.
3) Is too young (more than 5 yrs younger than me?). I don't dream of being a cradle snatcher XD Although, some young 'uns are pretty mature for their age...well, we'll see XD
4) Is too old (more than 15 yrs older than me). I'd feel awkward dating someone that's almost as old as my dad.
5) Is childish. A man-child is so NOT cute had an ex that's so impatient, lashes out on the littlest of offenses, practically threw tantrums when he's hungry and couldn't decide, and walked out on me so many times, i'm just left to wonder why i even said yes to him. Nope, never again. He was just 1 year younger than me...age really is just a number XD
5) Is uber negative. Sees everything as depressing or boring. Couldn't be made to smile or be encouraged. I'll pray for him, but i won't be dating him.
6) Fond of swearing. Swear words grate at my nerves. Very vexing to the spirit
7) Talks too loud. Even more grating to my nerves >.<;
8) Has a small or high pitched voice. I don't find it attractive at all...
9) Has no opinions or thoughts of his own. That is just sad. i don't want to date an empty shell.
10) Is impulsive. I don't mind spontaneous (like it a lot, actually). But i don't go for the "shoot first, ask questions later" kind of thinking.
11) Doesn't care about his body. Unhygienic. Doesn't strive for a healthier weight. Stuck on vices (drinking and smoking).
12) Doesn't like to move around. Hates long walks, running, trekking...definitely not my type.
13) Is too silent or secretive about himself. I don't mind a little mystery (i'm an Agatha Christie fan, after all). But if he doesn't talk or share anything about himself and what he's about, and just expects me to read between the lines...i don't think i'd want to bother to know him at all. I'm crazy, yes. But i'm not looking for a card-carrying psycho for a date XD
Ok, i was reading from this thread for sometime now. I think it's time i join the madness? XDHmm...
A guy is dateable for me when he:
1) Has a sense of humor. Not the cheesy kind, though. The kind that can really catch me off guard, can give me a laughing fit XD and, can lift my spirits up instantly when i'm down or upset. Major plus! (marriage material
)2) Loves music. Without question. He doesn't have to be a good singer, but he should at least have good taste in music. It'd be awesome if he can play instruments. I'll take care of the singing (i'll sing for us, or i'll teach him
). But if he can sing with me...wow 3) Loves to dance. He doesn't have to be a hip hop master, or a dance floor god. But he has to have rhythm. I frequently "dance" while sitting down (usually when i'm on the passenger seat XD), so it'd be awesome if he can bounce along with me
of course, if he can take the moves to the dance floor, my heart might just stop 4) Is like a child. Childlike, not childish. Curious about the world and its wonders. Can have simple joys from looking at nature, or playing video games, or listening to music, or eating an awesome dish or ice cream flavor. Has a certain innocence that remains untainted by this sick, sad world. Someone who'll be wide eyed and silently say "Wow..." with me when we see something amazing together
like, the highest rollercoaster, Master Chief or Samus Aran in the flesh, and so on 5) Has an awesome imagination. Doesn't get bored easily. Asks me "what ifs" that get us both laughing and wondering. Won't mind my crazy "what ifs" as well XD Would gladly clash imaginary swords, power blasts, and super attacks with me
(hmmm...connected to number 4, i realize now XD)6) Loves food. Not afraid of spices and vegetables XD Would be awesome if he cooks. Would love it if he makes his own recipes, like i do
7) Is adventurous. Loves excitement, exploration, and trying new things. Rollercoaster crazy
like me. Would love to take the road less traveled, wandering around, and not afraid to get lost with me 8) Challenges me. Someone who makes me think. Someone who inspires me to up my game, and brings the best out of me. And vice versa
9) Is Spirit-filled. Bursting with the fruits of the Spirit (charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, chastity). Consumed with HIS Holy Fire. Just WOW
10) Takes care of his body. Works out. Bathes and brushes everyday. Eats healthy
11) Is smart. Doesn't have to be a genius. If he's witty, can hold a sensible conversation with me, and enjoys learning new things, i'm sold
if he opens up a new world to me, though...i'd swoon 12) Gorgeous eyes and smile.
i DO love to stare, after all.13) Desires GOD. Wants to be with GOD, to feel HIS presence, to know HIM and be deep in love with HIM.
A guy is undateable when he:
1) Doesn't know GOD, and has no desire to know GOD.
2) Is married, or currently in a relationship.
3) Is too young (more than 5 yrs younger than me?). I don't dream of being a cradle snatcher XD Although, some young 'uns are pretty mature for their age...well, we'll see XD
4) Is too old (more than 15 yrs older than me). I'd feel awkward dating someone that's almost as old as my dad.
5) Is childish. A man-child is so NOT cute
had an ex that's so impatient, lashes out on the littlest of offenses, practically threw tantrums when he's hungry and couldn't decide, and walked out on me so many times, i'm just left to wonder why i even said yes to him. Nope, never again. He was just 1 year younger than me...age really is just a number XD5) Is uber negative. Sees everything as depressing or boring. Couldn't be made to smile or be encouraged. I'll pray for him, but i won't be dating him.
6) Fond of swearing. Swear words grate at my nerves. Very vexing to the spirit
7) Talks too loud. Even more grating to my nerves >.<;
8) Has a small or high pitched voice. I don't find it attractive at all...
9) Has no opinions or thoughts of his own. That is just sad. i don't want to date an empty shell.
10) Is impulsive. I don't mind spontaneous (like it a lot, actually). But i don't go for the "shoot first, ask questions later" kind of thinking.
11) Doesn't care about his body. Unhygienic. Doesn't strive for a healthier weight. Stuck on vices (drinking and smoking).
12) Doesn't like to move around. Hates long walks, running, trekking...definitely not my type.
13) Is too silent or secretive about himself. I don't mind a little mystery (i'm an Agatha Christie fan, after all). But if he doesn't talk or share anything about himself and what he's about, and just expects me to read between the lines...i don't think i'd want to bother to know him at all. I'm crazy, yes. But i'm not looking for a card-carrying psycho for a date XD
I know a woman is dateable when............ she buys me a Dairy Queen Blizzard!!!
I know a woman is undateable when............... she asks if I will share my Dairy Queen Blizzard with her (are you kidding me???)
Descyple don't share his Blizzard with nobody (not even the person who bought it for him!!!).
I know a woman is undateable when............... she asks if I will share my Dairy Queen Blizzard with her (are you kidding me???)
Descyple don't share his Blizzard with nobody (not even the person who bought it for him!!!).
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He likes The Legend of Zelda. Dateable.
He thinks Zelda is the main character. Nondateable.
He has several hobbies. Dateable.
One of them is facebook stalking. Nondateable.
He's a musician. Dateable.
He likes Nickleback. Nondateable.
He likes fishing. Dateable.
He hates seafood. Nondateable.
He's in touch with his emotions. Dateable.
He cries over chick flicks. Nondateable.
He's well-groomed. Dateable.
He shaves his legs. Nondateable.
He has a collection of some sort. Dateable.
It's a beanie baby collection. Nondateable.
He likes animals. Dateable.
He's Steve Erwin. Nondateable.
He likes horses. Dateable.
He's a brony. Nondateable.
He's an artist. Dateable.
He thinks instagram is art. Nondateable.
He wears cologne on special occasions. Dateable.
It's axe. Nondateable.
Might post some more later. Don't want to flood.
He thinks Zelda is the main character. Nondateable.
He has several hobbies. Dateable.
One of them is facebook stalking. Nondateable.
He's a musician. Dateable.
He likes Nickleback. Nondateable.
He likes fishing. Dateable.
He hates seafood. Nondateable.
He's in touch with his emotions. Dateable.
He cries over chick flicks. Nondateable.
He's well-groomed. Dateable.
He shaves his legs. Nondateable.
He has a collection of some sort. Dateable.
It's a beanie baby collection. Nondateable.
He likes animals. Dateable.
He's Steve Erwin. Nondateable.
He likes horses. Dateable.
He's a brony. Nondateable.
He's an artist. Dateable.
He thinks instagram is art. Nondateable.
He wears cologne on special occasions. Dateable.
It's axe. Nondateable.
Might post some more later. Don't want to flood.
I remember making a super long, and quite serious posting on this thread.
Well, time to let some crazy out!!! XD *FYI people: i'm currently feverish* XD
Hmmm...
A guy is dateable when................he notices that my eyes have a pleasant shade of brown
A guy is undateable when.............he notices that my eyes have a pleasant shade of brown, and wants to take them out XD
A guy is dateable when................he likes my flowy dark locks, which reminds him of mermaids and Catherine-Zeta Jones in Zorro
A guy is undateable when.............he likes to buzz off my flowy dark locks, 'coz he believes "bald is beautiful" >.<;
A guy is dateable when................he shares his favorite ice cream with me (you reading this, Descyple? XD)
A guy is undateable when.............he gives me his favorite ice cream (after i asked for a taste), then runs off, crying like a baby XD
A guy is dateable when................he walks out in a moonlit night with me, and asks me to run in the fields with him
A guy is undateable when.............he walks out in a moonlit night with me, then later on, makes me run for my life all the way home, 'coz he transformed into a werewolf, and was about to take me as his dinner XD
A guy is dateable when................he says that i light up a room when i'm in it
A guy is undateable when.............he says that i light up a room, making him squint, shield his eyes and look in the opposite direction XD
A guy is dateable when................he says "I want you, all my life!!!"
A guy is undateable when.............he says "I want your life!!!" then, draws out his fangs and lunges for my neck XD
Well, time to let some crazy out!!! XD *FYI people: i'm currently feverish* XD
Hmmm...
A guy is dateable when................he notices that my eyes have a pleasant shade of brown
A guy is undateable when.............he notices that my eyes have a pleasant shade of brown, and wants to take them out XD
A guy is dateable when................he likes my flowy dark locks, which reminds him of mermaids and Catherine-Zeta Jones in Zorro
A guy is undateable when.............he likes to buzz off my flowy dark locks, 'coz he believes "bald is beautiful" >.<;
A guy is dateable when................he shares his favorite ice cream with me (you reading this, Descyple? XD)
A guy is undateable when.............he gives me his favorite ice cream (after i asked for a taste), then runs off, crying like a baby XD
A guy is dateable when................he walks out in a moonlit night with me, and asks me to run in the fields with him
A guy is undateable when.............he walks out in a moonlit night with me, then later on, makes me run for my life all the way home, 'coz he transformed into a werewolf, and was about to take me as his dinner XD
A guy is dateable when................he says that i light up a room when i'm in it
A guy is undateable when.............he says that i light up a room, making him squint, shield his eyes and look in the opposite direction XD
A guy is dateable when................he says "I want you, all my life!!!"
A guy is undateable when.............he says "I want your life!!!" then, draws out his fangs and lunges for my neck XD
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How come the singles have all the fun threads? :-/
When I was single (or separated as was sometimes the case since the divorce was all but completed)...
1. A guy was dateable when my daughter tells me he is by how taken she is with him
A guy was not dateable when all he can do is ramble about the nonsensical and laugh at his own jokes when they aren't even funny.
2. A guy was dateable when he wasn't ashamed to admit ignorance and showed a genuine desire to learn.
A guy was not dateable when he thought I was unrealistic for expecting a man to spend less than 2 hours a day on a gaming console.
3. A guy was dateable when he was secure enough in his masculinity to love cooking and could do so well
A guy was not dateable when he spent the entire date trying to impress me with what he thought were impressive details about himself
4. A guy was dateable when he wasn't afraid to discuss controversial topics and could do so with finesse and appreciation for intelligent conversation
A guy was not dateable when he try to play along with a conversation even when he didn't know the difference between Phil Kline and Phill Kline.
5. A guy was dateable when he knew to open the door for a lady; order for her after finding out what she likes; and knew the difference between Pinot Noir and Pinot Gris
A guy was not dateable when he thought that beer was the only drink on earth and was even proud of his temporary liquid grain holding tank even though it challenged his pants to the limit.
When I was single (or separated as was sometimes the case since the divorce was all but completed)...
1. A guy was dateable when my daughter tells me he is by how taken she is with him
A guy was not dateable when all he can do is ramble about the nonsensical and laugh at his own jokes when they aren't even funny.
2. A guy was dateable when he wasn't ashamed to admit ignorance and showed a genuine desire to learn.
A guy was not dateable when he thought I was unrealistic for expecting a man to spend less than 2 hours a day on a gaming console.
3. A guy was dateable when he was secure enough in his masculinity to love cooking and could do so well
A guy was not dateable when he spent the entire date trying to impress me with what he thought were impressive details about himself
4. A guy was dateable when he wasn't afraid to discuss controversial topics and could do so with finesse and appreciation for intelligent conversation
A guy was not dateable when he try to play along with a conversation even when he didn't know the difference between Phil Kline and Phill Kline.
5. A guy was dateable when he knew to open the door for a lady; order for her after finding out what she likes; and knew the difference between Pinot Noir and Pinot Gris
A guy was not dateable when he thought that beer was the only drink on earth and was even proud of his temporary liquid grain holding tank even though it challenged his pants to the limit.
A woman is dateable when................ she does not infringe on a man's right to have his own ice cream all to himself (you reading this, AzureAfire?)
A woman is undateable when................ I run away crying like a baby after she forces me to share my ice cream with her and she makes a post about it on CC.
A woman is undateable when................ I run away crying like a baby after she forces me to share my ice cream with her and she makes a post about it on CC.